(Closed) Mini-Vent: SO's Inconsistency & Trying to Stay Zen

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
4496 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

How long have you guys been together? That would be really frustrating. Fiance and I were high school sweethearts and have been together 12 years (getting married in October), but he waited until we were together for 10 to propose! Granted, we started as teenagers and then were in college so it wasn’t the ideal time, but still it seemed like a long time. I think the only consulation for me was that we both always talked about marriage, kids, etc. I think if he started to get wishy washy about it and expressed doubts I really would have gotten concerned. I want to be married and have kids one day. I know some couples stay together forever and never marry and I think thats fine if it works for them, but thats not what I want. It would have been really hard to consider that he might not want that anymore…

Post # 4
1583 posts
Bumble bee

@Polyphemus:  why is it ok for him to bring it up freely but not you?I suggest having a frank convo to get to the root of any worries or insecurities he may have. You might be surprised at why he is at times hesitant. It will probably have nothing to do with you.

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