Miscarriage at 11 weeks and grieving

posted 3 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@leahlou:  I’m so so sorry. Perhaps you shielded yourself because you didn’t want to get your hopes up again. *Hugs* I hope you have lots of support around you from friends and family x

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Are you involved with any support groups for women with multiple MCs? They probably understand what you’re going through better than us…

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@leahlou:  please don’t feel guilty!! It’s only natural you held something back to protect yourself 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m so, so sorry this happened to you. I think after three other MC, it is very normal that you feel detached- maybe you guarded yourself from becoming excited or attached to this pregnancy, in case you miscarried again? Do not be hard on yourself for feeling detached and not grieving yet- there is no right way to experience grief. I am hoping you can talk to a counselor about your emotions and to your doctor about the physical reasons for the MC. Take care and best of luck to you.

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I’m really sorry this happened to you. You know after three MC, I am sure that there’s a part of you that in order to cope numbs the pain. Although you are grieving, your natural instincts are telling you to just block it out. It’s okay, you are grieving in your way and this can’t be easy. Again, my heart goes out to you and thanks for being strong to post your story. 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

There is no wrong or right way to grieve. I’m so sorry for your loss, my heart breaks for you.

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