(Closed) Mismatched BM shoes in silver. Are these all OK?

posted 6 years ago in Shoes
  • poll: Do all these BM shoes "go" well enough together?
    Yep! : (39 votes)
    80 %
    No--change one or more (explain in comments) : (10 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 3
    4416 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    @Alleycat:  I dare anyone to notice the bridesmaids’ shoes at your wedding, even you later looking at pictures! Smile

    I think you’re fine. I told mine the same thing but with black, even though their dresses are short and navy, and technically navy and black don’t match (so I’ve been told). Once again, I dare anyone to, among all the beauty and wonder of my wedding, go “oh, look at that, not only are their shoes different but they don’t match the dress properly! HOW EMBARRASSING!!!”

    Yours will look great!!!

    Post # 4
    1426 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    I, too am giving my Bridesmaid or Best Man the choice of shoes (grey) and I know they will be different shades. Their dress will be mismatched and different shades of purple, so I don’t have a problem with it at all.

    I think those shoes are fine. The only one I’d have a problem with is the one with the colored gems. If they were clear, then they’d be fine to me.

    Post # 5
    46264 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    They will be fine. There are a zillion pics online showing bM’s wearing different shoes, and they all look great.

    The bottom one looks more pewter than silver on my monitor, but it’s hard to compare colors online.

    Post # 6
    1360 posts
    Bumble bee

    At my close friend’s wedding, we all had different styles of shoe; the only requirement was silver. NOBODY noticed our shoes, trust me, it doesn’t matter. 🙂

    Post # 7
    3000 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    The only ones I would change are the sandals with the jewels on them. I think the rest go together nicely. It’s not that the sandals don’t look good, it’s just that they seem too casual for anyone to wear to a wedding, especially a Bridesmaid or Best Man. But that’s just my opinion.

    Post # 8
    1498 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Truthfully, I doubt anyone would notice and if they did notice, I’m sure they wouldn’t think anything about it.

    That being said, the only one that I think doesn’t really flow with the others is the one with the jewels but I don’t think they would bother me very much if it were my girls wearing the shoes.

    You could always email the pictures to all the bridesmaids just to show them how they look together. If they decide to tweak it a little then great but if not, then I wouldn’t sweat it!

    Post # 9
    5273 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    Nobody will notice – I had my girls all wear gold shoes of whatever stlye they wanted and I thought it looked good together.

    Post # 10
    571 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    All are fine but the ones with the colored stones or crystals on the front are sticking out to me and not in a good way, IMO. None of the others have color so I’d change that one pair to a solid silver shoe too. That way they are all still different styles but with a cohesive silver color.

    Post # 11
    1866 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I agree with PP’s about the sandals with the colored jewels – those need to go, but the others are absolutely fine.

    Post # 12
    1963 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I think they all go great together.

    Post # 13
    9552 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    They go together fine and they’re cute!

    Post # 15
    1026 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    the wedge ones stand out a lot to me 

    Post # 16
    5075 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    let it go.  They will look fine together.  I like seeing originality.  Matchy Matchy bugs me.  

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