Mismatched (but same metal) sets – any regrets?

posted 3 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Do you regret getting a mismatched set?
    Yes : (1 votes)
    4 %
    No : (24 votes)
    96 %
  • Post # 3
    1106 posts
    Bumble bee

    Kind of! I got a straight silver band because it was significantly cheaper than the matching gold/diamond curved one but the curved one was gorgeous! maybe I’ll get the matching one for a big anni but I doubt it I’m too practical to ask for such an expensive piece of jewelry x) 


    also questiom for bees with curved bands that aren’t soldered to your e-ring do they spin/not sit right with your e-ring a lot?


    Post # 4
    6785 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2014 - A castle!

    Commenting to follow. Just bought mismatched (but same color) bands and I’m wondering what others have to say.

    Post # 5
    8847 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

    Nope I like mine – complementary but not super-matchy

    Post # 6
    4698 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Heck, they’re not even the same color. My e-ring is palladium and my wedding band is made of stone, it’s black. (Hematite.) I have a black diamond in my e-ring so I think it looks great together. And my e-ring doesn’t “bulge” too severely at the band level so they sit together just fine. 

    Post # 7
    3249 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Begins search for @MissSweetiepie:‘s husband, to show him this post. 😛

    My wife’s rings were custom made, from gold we already had, so we got a matching band for around $100 more than a straight band probably would have cost (labour and design for the band were $250).

    Since she got her ring, she has found out that a lot of women, with similar shapes of engagement ring, do nt wear a wedding band.

    Post # 8
    900 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    Mine are both ROSE GOLD but E-ring is 18K (more peachy, closer to yellow gold) and my wedding band is 14K (much more pink/rosey.)

    I actually LOVE the combo and the difference is slight, the 14K band actually makes my Ering look more rose gold.   Most people see my ering and say “Is that yellow gold? it looks different.”  18K rose gold isn’t as obvious.

    Post # 9
    3249 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @linnylou_88:  I read the poll wrong before I voted – I thought t said “did you get a matching set” so there is one invalid “Yes” vote.  Sorry.

    Post # 11
    1106 posts
    Bumble bee

    @Duncan:  haha 🙂 if he knew I really wanted it he would go buy it and suprise me but I would feel so guilty!! 

    Post # 12
    143 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2003

    This is my mis matched set…

    Post # 13
    330 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    No regrets. Mine are both platinum and both round diamonds of complimentary size, but my e-ring wasn’t a set to begin with. I could’ve gotten a custom curved band (I have a 3-stone ring), but I wanted something I could wear on its own, especially since I was gifted some fairly substantially sized diamonds that I wanted to use for it.  I wear a small silver band in between (like, super duper dainty, about a 16g wire) between them to protect the prongs from each other, and I love the look.

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