Missing a party … Is it okay?

posted 3 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
Member
1788 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Of course it’s ok to miss her party, you’re not even in the bridal party, and no reasonable person would be mad at you for taking a vacation with your best friend instead of attending. 

Post # 4
Hostess
9908 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

of course it’s fine to miss it!

I was just at a bachelorette party where I was the only non-bridal party guest because no one could make it.  You’re not obligated to show up at any of the partie – even if you were in the BP she can’t make you go (you probably should but it’s not really required)

Post # 5
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681 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Completely fine to miss it!  You’re not in the bridal party, and you’re going to the shower – more than enough. Have a great vacation!

Post # 6
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42490 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

No one is obligated to attend a bachelorette party.

Post # 8
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1090 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Def. not rude. 

Post # 9
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1158 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@Pasha380:  totally fine to miss her party. Things happen!!! You are still allowed to have a life too! Smile

Post # 10
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1226 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

It’s an invitation, not a summons! Don’t stress about missing it.

Post # 11
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6273 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Pasha380:  of course, you are not required to go. you can decline and no one will think differently of you.

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