Post # 1
My wedding was yesterday and one of my bridesmaids did not show up. She did not call, she gave no indication when I had spoken to her a week prior that she would not be able to make it and I have not been able to reach her since. I have no idea what is going on with her. I wish she would call me and let me know she is ok, but since she hasn’t called me, I can’t help but be really mad and hurt that she would just bail on me and let me find out the day of my wedding.
Has anyone experienced this like… ever? I feel like such a loser! Ugh.
Post # 3
Oh my… wow. Um, Dang that is terrible. I’m speechless…. jeeze I hope she is ok. Has anyone else seen her??
Post # 4
@teamajax13: No one else in my life right now knows her so I have no way of knowing whether or not anyone has heard from her. No one I know has heard from her!
Post # 5
Ok, a couple more questions… #1, Is she normally unreliable?? Because even is someone is I can’t imagine them being a no show. #2, Does she live close? ….sorry, this is seriously shocking to me… god forbid something be wrong with her…and if it’s not…. That is big time bad right there!
Post # 6
That doesn’t sound right at all, I’d be really worried abt whether she’s ok.
Post # 7
I agree, we need more info! It sounds like you feel that she bailed, though. It’s not uncommon, unfortunately.
I had my own BM who didn’t show up to *anything* wedding related. She would say she was coming and then at the last minute, or after the fact, make up a really stupid excuse for not being there. She had major issues. My worst fear was that she would bail at the last minute and not show up to the wedding. I finally just kicked her out.
My FSIL had this happen, too… One of her BMs just stopped talking to her and never showed up to the wedding. They never had any kind of fight or confrontation, and the BM never said why. They haven’t spoken since.
Weddings bring out the CRAZY in people. If someone would actually just get to that point and then not show up, maybe it’s for the best. Who knows how they would have acted if they were there!
Post # 8
yikes! that does not sound right at all… does she have a facebook page or anything like that you can heck and see if it has been updated so at least you know she is alive and can then know how to feel?
i would be seriously worried! and hurt too! since you have no idea whats going on, it’s hard to not feel like she just opted out of the wedding and spent they day watching TV or something 🙁 i’m so sorry!!
Post # 9
i would be more worried than hurt at this point…you need to drive over there and make sure she’s ok!
Post # 10
Take that drive immediately!
Post # 11
Agreed with many of the PP. Don’t be offended and try not to be upset until you know the truth.
Keep us updated!
Post # 12
Yeah, I agree with these ladies… sounds bad. You need to find her…..
Post # 13
I would be thinking she’s in the hospital. Can you call her parents?
Post # 14
I sure hope she’s ok. If this is out of character of her, I would be doing everything I could to find her!
Post # 15
Yikes, this doesn’t sound normal unless this person is prone to just disappearing. I would be worried. Do you have any mutual friends that may know if she is ok? Sounds a bit scary to me.
Post # 16
- Wedding: June 2015 - Thorpewood
I hope she’s ok! If she is and there was no legitimate reason for her to miss your wedding, what are you going to do?