Missing Bridesmaid?!

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@somegonz:  Did you guys get into some kind of argument or does she have a reason to be mad at you for something?

 

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@somegonz:  The only thing I could think of is that she really can’t make it and thought that by telling you at the bridal shower it was enough. And now maybe she doesn’t want to talk and feels like you are calling her too much? I really don’t know. She still should of picked up the phone if she is your friend at least once.

Post # 6
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Newbee

@somegonz:  I’d say if she is causing you more stress than she is worth you might be better off just inviting her as a guest rather than as a bridesmaid.

That’s just me but I’m not married or anything so I don’t really have a clue what I’m talking about

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@somegonz:  Oh, then I have absolutely no idea. I would just assume then that she is not coming unfortunately … 

Post # 9
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

@somegonz:  That is very strange! I would say try contacting her on facebook, through private message of course, just to touch base. Since you have seen her posting there, hopefully you will be able to reach her. Good luck!

Post # 11
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Helper bee

Drop the bitch. I don’t know why you’re trying so hard to contact her. I’d be fuming pissed at her if I were you& would have dropped her ass a longgggg time ago!

Post # 12
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Busy Beekeeper

Do you guys share any friends? Could you ask one of them what is up?

Or you could send her a bunch of flowers with a letter saying how much you miss her and how worried you are about her as she hasn’t answered any of your attempts at communication. Let her knwo that she can talk to you about anything and that all that is important to you is that she is ok. Do not mention your wedding at all.

 

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

Sorry, girl… She’s Just Not That into Your Wedding.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Uhhhh am I the only person wondering if she is OKAY? 

Id be worried about her, not my wedding….

Post # 15
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Sugar bee

@somegonz:  I had an MIA bridesmaid.  She showed up about 10 minutes before I walked down the aisle.  I just treated her like a guest.  So glad we took the pictures beforehand and she wasn’t in them.

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I would pop into her work.  My MOH was not contactable for a couple of days (VERY unlike her), so I stopped into her work.  Turns out she had dropped a tea on her blackberry and it wasn’t working. She was thankful that I came to make sure she was okay.

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