(Closed) Missing ex friend

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
285 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Well, the good news is you do have a good excuse to send her a message – “congratulations on your upcoming wedding!”

You could write that you realize it has been a long time since you’ve talked, but you heard she was getting married and just wanted to wish her the best.  Then you could move on and talk about a few things that have been happening in your life, and ask her about hers.  As long as you really are ready to move on, and leave the past in the past.  Wait for her response. If she doesn’t reach out to you, then I would just leave it be.  But at least you tried!

Good luck, and I hope you two eventually are able to reunite.


Post # 5
376 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@Pupperoni: I’m struggling with something similar (sort of). I went through some medical issues (the doctors thought I might have cancer) and I told my two best friends of 10 years. It’s been 10 months and I haven’t heard from them. You’d think best friends would at least text you to find out what’s going on, right? Wrong. Friends come and go. I would just move on.

Post # 7
2207 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Ugh I’m going through the same thing…. I just keep reminding myself that a friend that I could never really trust really isn’t a friend, so I need to just let go. It really sucks tho, as I also miss just having our talks. 

Post # 8
6360 posts
Bee Keeper

It would be wanted, but depending who it was (what happened), friendship would not be reinstated without their apology.

There’s only one way to find out!

Post # 9
239 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@MissDarthVader:  I’m with you. True friends stick around, temporary friends are just that…they filter out of your life. It’s tough…because as you get older your number of very good true blue friends dwindles a little. Take it as an opportunity to be very grateful for the great friends you do have <3

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