Missing my long time best friend

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
2057 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - British Columbia

To be fair, it is really difficult to know why she is being so cold and distant until she shares her side of the story. Some ladies forget about their friends when they get married and have different priorities; etc.

Enjoy and cherish the people you do have! It’s normal to miss your best pal, but realize that people do drift away but they would eventually come back. The best thing you can do is to leave her where she is… and pick up where you guys last left off. Let her initiate contacting you. It would be sad to ruin a friendship you’ve had for more than 10 years.

Post # 4
4072 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

That really sucks, and I am sorry. Do look at all the friends you do have now that have stuck by you though, and be happy you have them.

You could always flat out ask this friend if you did something wrong. Approach it in a polite manner of course. Just explain that you have felt distant and just want to know if everything is okay between you two.

Post # 5
163 posts
Blushing bee

Im really sorry you’re going through this.

I’m a pretty blunt person, so I would probably talk to any of my best/close friends directly about this. This is what I do when I have issues with them. I bring it up and we talk. I have only had to do this a few times, but it’s pretty effective, actually. We don’t fight or anything, it’s just a discussion where we share our viewpoints on the situation.

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