(Closed) Missing my mom….*please read*

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
18645 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m so sorry girl.  I lost my mom in 2004 and didn’t have her for my wedding planning.  I always hate this time of year because my mom’s b-day was 5/11 so it was always near or on Mother’s Day.

Post # 4
9483 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@MrsJoyful80:  So sorry for your loss.  (hugs)

Post # 5
615 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012 - Mother of the Bride's residence

I’m sorry — I can’t even imagine how that feels. I hope things start looking up for you soon!

Post # 6
369 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m sorry hun..  I can totally relate being in the same boat.  It’s ok to be sad.  Hugs.

Post # 7
67 posts
Worker bee

@MrsJoyful80:  Not having your mom with you at such an emotional time is very difficult.

It’s very important for you remember that your mom would be so happy and excited 

for you. When I miss my mom I try to think about what she would say or do for me.

It really does helps sometimes to remember the happiness and love.  Reaching out 

to family and maybe even a friend of hers could be of comfort to you also.

After 17 years I still get choked up when thinking of my mom.  Be happy, that is

what she would want for you.

Post # 8
1141 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Does your mom have a sister that you could turn to for planning things with? It might be a comfort, if so you should reach out for support from her family and your fiancé. That’s what family is for.

Post # 10
571 posts
Busy bee

Such a sad topic and horrible feeling. I lost my mother in 2008 and miss her everyday. I feel like wedding planning brings out more pain because I wish she was here to help. I’m trying to incorporate things that remind me of her in the planning and design of certain aspects. Keep your head up, try to remember all the happy times.


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