- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2013
So, I have been actively trying to plan our wedding since almost the beginning of the year. FI is military and it seems like they just want to ruin all of my plans. Our date has changed more times than I care to mention, and now it is literally impossible for me to pick one without taking a huge leap of faith and just hoping it works out. FI deploys next week. I took him to look at some venues yesterday, and was told that they are already almost booked for weekends in September, October, and getting into November. FI should be home early Sept., but it could be early Oct. and will get 30 days of leave shortly after he returns but then he may not get leave for a few weeks. So Basically I can pick a date and start planning, but when it comes down to it, it may not happen. I wll also be in school then, and with the course load I am taking in the fall, a honeymoon probably isnt an option. Granted, we will be moving to Hawaii, but I am still a little bummed about that, and didnt even realize it until last night. So now I am left with trying to make a decision: PLan the wedding andhope he makes it home, push it back yet again, or just city hall it and plan something for when I know he will be home and we can have a reception. Im so frustrated and dissapointed right now in the way things are not falling together, Im not sure what to do. FI is stationed in Hawaii, and we have been long distance for two years, and we were looking so forward to him coming home and us getting married and finally being able to be together all of the time, but times like this I feel like it is never going to happen unless we just say screw a wedding and do it.