(Closed) mixed feelings on TTC…

posted 5 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

It is really scary to think about actually having kids some day. It is so much responsibility. I still feel so young sometimes and it’s crazy to think that we are actively TTC. We have been trying for 2+ years now so I’m very ready but every now and then I kind of freak out. I don’t think you can ever really be 100% prepared for being a parent. You don’t know what all to expect until you are there, in the situation. Just try and relax, everything will work out just as it is supposed to. 🙂

Post # 4
2125 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Well, maybe you just need more time but I wonder what will be different in the fall vs. the summer…I can’t help but wonder if there’s more than meets the eye, like what exactly concerns you the most? Money? Lifesyle shift?

For me it’s lifestyle shift that scares me the most. I know that life will change as we know it, we won’t be the same little husband wife and cat family ever again. 

I panick a little when I see commercials of family life, babies and all the chaos that comes with it. I guess I just have faith It will make me happier than anything to have a child and that I can deal with all the changes. 

Perhaps you should think about what worries you most.

Post # 5
2543 posts
Sugar bee

You’re not alone! I feel like this also. Sometimes I want a baby desperately and am thinking about nursery themes, names, etc. and other times I freak out about how much our lives will change!

Post # 6
112 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m exactly the same way! My husband probably thinks I’m crazy at this point with the back and forth. I’m almost hoping we have an oopsie baby which would be amazing, then I wouldn’t have to fret over it.

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