(Closed) Mixed signals vent

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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3420 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@MariaW:  Did you ask if he isn’t sure about you? Is he not sure about the institution? or his just afraid of the financial cost going into said institution?

Post # 4
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340 posts
Helper bee

That is super hurtful and I am sorry that you have to deal with the hopes up and down. Maybe he wants to get married, but then gets scared which is natural and will eventurally go away. Just be extra sweet and supportive and hopefully he will come around.

Post # 6
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646 posts
Busy bee

@MariaW:  I feel like so many of your posts are sad 🙁 And you should not be with someone that makes you sad or disappoints you. Relationships shouldnt be this hard….

Post # 7
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868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

You still have a bail date right??? He sounds like he’s trying but he’s a bit of a mess. All that being said I’d be thrilled if SO was looking at rings. But if he said he was not sure about marriage as an institution I’d be flipping out. So yeah…that’s messy and I’m glad you have a bail date.

Post # 9
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646 posts
Busy bee

@MariaW:  HAHA 🙂 New deal…you must post one happy thought a week !!

Post # 12
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663 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2017 - Vegas Wedings

Thats a total jerk thing to do. He needs to figure himself out not treat you like a yo-yo.

Post # 16
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3969 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

i am glad you have a bail date. I feel like, at his age, he’s just stringing you along 🙁 I hope he isn’t, of course, but from what you’ve told us over the weeks… it just doesn’t feel right. Does he just expect you to keep waiting or just “forget” about these conversations? Ugh. Men. 

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