(Closed) MOH abandonment…need some love over here! [vent warning]

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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762 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Okay that is just not cool! I’d FREAK if my MOH left for a vacay just before my Wedding!! Talk about no support eh? I know that since it’s a booked trip the odds of her changing the date is slim to none, but I would still tell her how disappointed you are and look for other alternitive help from others. I’m so sorry this happened 🙁  *HUGS!!!*

Post # 4
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6065 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

Ohh I can definitely understand why you’re rattled…

Is she the only person you have locally to help with practical things and to give you emotional support?

The only thing I have to say in her defense is…depending on her and her husband’s jobs…sometimes vacation time is hard to get and if this time was an opportunity for them to go on a trip theyve been wanting to go on for a while or something..

How many days before the wedding will she be back?

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@pink.sequins:  (hugs)  You’re not crazy!
My now former-MOH is leaving on a out-of-state trip the Wednesday before my wedding and won’t be back until Friday afternoon before (Saturday morning wedding).  I feel your stress!  She’s now just a bridesmaid, but there were many, MANY other factors leading to that decision.

Post # 7
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6065 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

@pink.sequins: I’m really sorry you are bummed. ((hugs))

Are there other people you have locally who can help?

Post # 9
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2104 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@pink.sequins: Oh, and please don’t take that as my suggesting that you do demote her–like I said, there were MANY other issues in play with that decision!  Hang in there!

Post # 10
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6065 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

@pink.sequins: I’m sorry! I didn’t read your response to another bee clearly enough- you have your FMIL….but I know it’s not the same as your close girlfriends…:-/

Post # 13
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6065 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

@pink.sequins: Well at least you have some help, although I know it doesn’t replace a best friend!

My MOH is in another country, so I know how crappy the distance can be…:-/

 

Post # 14
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6065 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

@pink.sequins: Oh see, now that would make me really upset…(the apt. at the wedding salon)- you shouldn’t be there alone!

Have you had a talk with your friend?

Post # 16
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7296 posts
Busy Beekeeper

@pink.sequins:  aww, so sorry to hear this!  do have other people who WILL be around? even if they are not your BMs?  i was planning my wedding while away on internship, so one of the fellow interns became an honorary BM for me!

BIG HUGS!   and remember, the Bee is ALWAYS here for you!

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