(Closed) MOH and Best Friend Letdown

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

That totally sucks.  It must really hurt to have a friend do this to you.  It does sound like you almost should have known going into this what her limitations were.  If she’s been the self centered one during the last 25 years, she wasn’t going to change for something that was this important to you. Weddings do bring out the worst in some people and the best in others, like your other bridesmaids.  You’re so lucky you have some other friends that are stepping up and really making you feel special.

Post # 4
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3619 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

That really sucks. *hug*

If it helps, it doesn’t sound like she’s doing it intentionally; it’s just the way she is.

Post # 5
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141 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I have learned that you can’t expect people to change-you will just be disappointed.  You can control what you do though.  Maybe you reevaluating your emotional invesment in that relationship will help?  I’m sorry that she isn’t involved and sharing in what could be a great bonding experience for the both of you!

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