(Closed) MOH and BM drifting aside

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I would check in with them and tell them that you’ve noticed they’ve had a lot of stuff going on lately, and are they still able to be and interested in being in your wedding party? If so, I’d reiterate what you need them to do.

ETA: When checking in with your BM with the relationship woes, I’d also check in with HER. Sounds like she’s going through a tough time and she may need to talk.

Post # 5
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1194 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Have you said to them outright “I need your help right now and would really like you to be here for me right now.”?  I feel like most issues like them can be solved with open communication.

Truth be told, even though the wedding is in the forefront of your life, it’s not so for everyone else, even though they are in it.  You need to be considerate to that as much, if not more, as you expect for them to recognize their role in your day. 

Do you have family or other girlsfriends who can help you with what you need help with?  If so, turn to those people & ask for their help instead of relying 100% on your BMs.

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