MOH angering other bridesmaids

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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2788 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I would speak to her, but less accusatory and more concern for her. One girl came to you and said these things, have you confirmed the information or just assuming it’s true? This girl could be exaggerating because her ideas have been turned down. Either way talk with your moh and find out how everything is, if she’s ok with all that’s on her plate and if she needs any help with anything. You may be surprised at what you learn.

Post # 4
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1715 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

If she is your MOH then you are obviously close to this girl, so I think you should just talk to her.  Start off not even mentioning the wedding or anything to do with, come to her as a friend and not a bride.  Ask her how her life is and if she is okay.  If she asks why you are bringing this up then say, a bm came to you about her not being the easiest person to work with and it didn’t sound like her so you wanted to check and make sure everything is ok in her life.  Ask her if you can help make this time any easier on her and if their is anything she needs from you.  Be it taking her out for a girls night, helping her with some family things, just listening to her vent about life, or if she is overwhelmed offer to put another BM in charage of these parties.  Tell her that you still love her and just want to make sure that you and your wedding aren’t adding too much extra stress to her life and if she needs to take a step back, that is OK.

Post # 5
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868 posts
Busy bee

@FarmingGal:  I guess I still feel like they should not have told you at all. They should sort it out amongst themselves.

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