(Closed) MOH can’t attend wedding :(

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1545 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

oh man thats a toughy. i know this sounds mean but i would ask if how she would feel if you changed the MOH?

Post # 4
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m sorry about that.  I ended up not having my MOH able to attend either.  My only BM was my SIL for the wedding.  Do you have other bridesmaids?  You could bump one of them up, or just not even have a MOH.

Post # 5
5786 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

Aw that stinks, I think you should upgrade one of your BMs to MOH. I wouldn’t worry about having even sides.

Post # 6
3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Thats to bad. If I were you I would just list all the bridesmaids as bridesmaids or as MOHs and not have the seperation, dont demot a groomsmen though, that would just be hurtful for him.

I would have one really lucky groomsmen just walk down with two girls 🙂

Post # 7
179 posts
Blushing bee

That does really suck. Well, it’s an understandable situation and it’s not the end of the world to either bump up an MOH or just not have one. Maybe you and FI could do without an MOH or best man… and you can ask a close family member/sibling to stand on your side.

Post # 8
1927 posts
Buzzing bee

I would say you should NOT try to upgrade someone this close to your wedding.  I’m guessing at this point your MOH has already helped you a lot with things like showers and a bachelorette party.  Naming someone else MOH would hurt her feelings and the new MOH would certainly feel like a second choice (because she was after all).  I would just go ahead and have uneven sides at the wedding.  List your MOH in the program and following her name write a note that she was unable to attend. 

Post # 9
2201 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

If you want to have even numbers walking down the aisle, could you have the Best Man already up there with the groom when the rest of the processional starts? And then have him escort two of the ladies out at the end of the ceremony?

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