(Closed) MOH Conflict – Long

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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696 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I think maybe you are over-reacting a bit. I mean I totally understand being annoyed at her and I do think her actions were pretty rude, but in the same sense I dont think they were worth throwing away what is obviously a close friendship.

I think you should just text her something like “hey, I know we kind of mis-fired on hanging out the other night and maybe we were both a little irritated with eachother but lets not let it cause tension between us”

I mean we all act a little selfish some days and she said “you didnt understand” so maybe she had a legitimate reason in her mind and felt like you were being selfish for not aknowleding it..?

Post # 4
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12821 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I agree with PP – you may be overreacting about this.  I would also recommend abstaining from texting her, and actually calling her.  You both probably mistakenly inferred a tone from the text messages that just weren’t there.

Post # 5
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1735 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

this seems a bit petty! not worth throwing away a friendship.

Post # 6
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3050 posts
Sugar bee

I agree- you’re being a bit oversensitive. you had other friends with you- it’s not like you were sitting alone waiting for her. let it slide.

Post # 7
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5969 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

Eh, chalk it up to lunar interferance, apologize for your half and forget about it!  Everybody’s up to their necks in it right now, and she didn’t meet you for drinks, so what?  It’s not like she left you to in a tree surrounded by wolves…I get that your feelings are hurt, but she’s probably got some unrelated garbage to deal with right now, giver her some space, it’ll work out!

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