- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
I really didn’t want to chose a MOH but I had one friend really want it and figured I should just give it to her. She’s great ont he phone, usually available but she frequently makes promises and rarely delivers. She had 2 jobs, help with the bachelorette and make a toast at the reception.
The bachelorette ended up working out but I booked the venue and the other bridesmaids helped out. The whole weekend she was rude to everyone and on several occasions yelled, cried and made passive agressive comments to me about how ungrateful I am and that being MOH is a thankless job. Meanwhile, my other friends feelings are hurt and I am hurt, embarassed and angry. On top of it all, she won’t tell me what she spent the food and alcohol budget on for the weekend – I know what the final bill was and it was much less than the budget, not to mention, to took only her personal preferences into consideration and completely avoided the shopping list we had come up with. She ended up leaving early without even helping the group to clean.
The wedding is less than a month away and I don’t know how to handle her. Quite frankly, I’m afraid she will try and ruin my and my fiance’s day with her self-involved antics. I have worked tirelessly to make this day as easy, relaxed and fun for everyone involved.
Do I fire her?