MOH Dilemma

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1952 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@babiibella:  First of all, I’m so sorry this has been put on to you. It’s not fair and the last thing you need. Having said that, the MOH/BMs don’t really do much besides stand up there with you while you get married. Their help is purely optional. My BMs/MOH all got into a group chat and that’s how the dresses, shoes, makeup and hair was decided – that’s it.

If she’s giving you so much grief, kick her out of the party entirely. If you feel that bad, just demote her, and make the helpful BM your MOH instead. If the MOH doesn’t like it, she should have thought of that before all this crap happened.

All the best! <3

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