(Closed) MOH drama. Don’t know what to do :(

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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2190 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m sorry :-/ she sounds a little needy and immature to bash you like that. I’m starting to learn that its really difficult to give my FI the time with me he needs when I’m spending more than 2 days a week with my friends. I’ve cut back my friend dates to 1-2 times per week because I can’t give FI my all in our relationship when I’m so consumed with my friends.

I’m not sure if it will get easier as time goes on but I like it that way and for those friends of mine who don’t, well…I have to drop them. Usually when two friends can’t give each other what they need anymore, its a good sign to end the friendship.

If she’s not giving you any attention either and placing the blame on you, then its just not worth it in my book.

Post # 4
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658 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I’m so sorry you are having to put up with this kind of crap! I just dumped my MOH for a similar reason. I know it sucks. But the important thing to remember is that this wedding is all about you and your FI, and her drama is not needed. It sounds to me like she’s just jealous. I hope things work out and y’all have the perfect wedding day you deserve! (((HUGS)))

Post # 5
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231 posts
Helper bee

I definitely think she is lime green jello! Your wedding is about YOU and your FI! She is obvi not helping or doing her MOH duties and is just making you more stressed! I was in a similar situation where I had been best friends with someone for so many years that even tho it was all drama I was worried to end things – however once I did I felt wonderful and realized it was for the best! I haven’t looked back. Sometimes people just grow apart and change. I would take a little bit to calm down and really think about it before you make a decision, but either way I am sure you will have a fantastic wedding day and try to enjoy it!

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