- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
I am having trouble with my MOH/Sister. I called her 3 weeks ago to beg her for the third time to email me the engagement announcement my mother had typed up on her computer because I was getting a lot of pressure from my FMIL/FGMIL about it not being in the paper yet. I guess asking my 21yo sis to email me a file was too much for her because she gave me a hard time for not giving her things to do to help and when I told her the most helpful thing she could do would be to email me the file I needed, and get healthy (she has bronchitis, strep(4x), and mono in the months since we got engaged) she went off the handle and she called me a bridezilla and something else that starts with a b… and told me she was done with me and hung up on me. And now we haven’t talked for 3 weeks and I still don’t have the file so I had to write up a new one with my mom.
Note that I am planning this wedding by myself while finishing school(graduating in May), preparing to move, looking for a full time job and working. My mom has been away taking care of her ailing parents, which is fine with me (we just lost my mom’s dad so taking care of grandma is a big deal right now). My FI is working full time and not really able to help, and my BM’s are in different states and working and going to school so they can’t really help. I am just wondering was I wrong to ask that my sis who is in school full time, working part time and president of her sorority take 5 minutes and send me an email? I know we all have a lot on our plates but seriously what did I do wrong?