- 6 years ago
I’ve texted my Maid/Matron of Honor 4 times in the last 2 weeks about making a date to go look at a dress. She usually texts me back within an hour or two, after the first 3 texts I got a response after 3 days. The last text I sent yesterday and so far, nothing. I texted her on Tuesday to tell her my dress is in, got a text back within 10 mins. So obviously she is ignoring my texts. I know, I need to call her, but I haven’t had time when we would both be free. She has Mondays off and I work but I would take the time off to go with her, she seems to think I have nothing but time. We’ve had some drama pretty much the whole time I’ve been planning, she tried to back out of the wedding party in Oct but we talked it over and she’s still Maid/Matron of Honor and we’re both ok with that. Then I got frustrated due to lack of interest on her part and tried to kick her out. She’s still Maid/Matron of Honor but she hasn’t done anything. All my other BMs have gone dress shopping with me atleast once, we’ve had a meet and greet for all the wedding party and everyone but Maid/Matron of Honor showed up. Between the other 3 that live in my province (one is in Alberta, the other 4 are here in Ontario) they’ve planned my bridal shower and bachelorette, Maid/Matron of Honor hasn’t done anything. I don’t expect anything out of the Bridesmaid or Best Man in Alberta, she’s too far away. I have one Bridesmaid or Best Man who asks me on a weekly basis how things are going with Maid/Matron of Honor and after I tell her, every single time I get “You should kick her out and make Bridesmaid or Best Man N your Maid/Matron of Honor.” Yeah, I know, thanks. But its kinda hard to kick her out when she won’t stop ignoring me!!
What should I do, kick her out or wait till I can get her face to face and try to get her to understand that I need her to do some things for me? Seriously, dress shopping is not that big of a deal, especially when she loves to shop. I’m pretty sure if I just leave it to her to go try on the dress by herself, it’ll never happen.