Post # 1
Well Maid/Matron of Honor text me and said I’m assuming I’m not in your wedding anymore..thanks for letting me know anything.
I took a few days to cool off and think about what I wanted to say…I was going to be nice to her. I didn’t want to regret what words were said. But she decided it for me–shes out, done.
I offered to pay for her dress she said don’t worry about any of it, enjoy your life. I will be sending her a 100 dollar check though.
It’s not my fault that I tried having a heart to heart with her 3 times and she totally freaked on me. Meh..I guess you never really know someone. Kind of sucks–just lost a friend…but I suppose it’s better off this way. I won’t have to deal with the drama, the jealousy, the rude comments, the back stabbing. Ugh….
Post # 3
what would cause her to send this text message? it seems like there is some information missing here
Post # 4
@CanadianMermaid: check out OP’s profile, there are a few posts about said issues. (Now I am off to read about everything!)
ETA: … yeah, I think you’re better off without her. She wasn’t happy for you at all and probably regretted saying yes to being Maid/Matron of Honor as much as you eventually regretted asking her. I say move onwards and upwards and get rid of as much negative energy as you can. You’re probably right that her boyfriend won’t last til the wedding – at which time you can cut them out completely.
Sounds a little harsh, but I have very little patience for such negative people. Good riddance. I’m sorry it’s caused you so much aggravation – hopefully the rest of the wedding process is easier.
Post # 5
I tried, I really did, I tried to resolve all the issues. I tried talking to her, tried meeting with her. None of it was appreciated. I lost a friend and I’m sick that it came to this–but I can’t keep trying with her. Never told her I was mad at her, I just tried to explain I was upset about all the negative talking about fellow Bridesmaid or Best Man. She told me she thought the best friend she knew would care. I tried caring, I tried to resolve this issue with a heart to heart talk, it only made it worse. I am just ranting, venting right now, I’m mad, angry, sad, relieved. Baaah.
Post # 6
@CharlotteMJ: Thanks, I think you’re right…doubt boyfriend will last until the wedding. You’re right about the negative energy–life is too short to deal with such “dramatic, negative” people. **sigh**