(Closed) MOH Duties and these INSANE bridesmaids!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
5823 posts
Bee Keeper

No, herding cats is easier.  These BMs just don’t get it!

Post # 4
179 posts
Blushing bee

All she could think to contribute to the bridal shower was to bring penis related stuff? LOL

Maybe it’ll really would just be easier for you to tell them to do specific tasks. Some people have a hard time doing thing w/o a lot of direction.

Post # 5
202 posts
Helper bee

Wow…how frustrating.  I guess you will just have to delegate certain tasks to the others or take them on yourself.  Unfortunately, the old saying rings true “if you want something done right you have to do it yourself”.  Hopefully, the other BMs are helpful and cooperative. 

Post # 6
2695 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Girl I feel your pain. I would just do the stuff yourself and be done with it. If they ask how they can help then tell them, bring a bottle of wine or whatever.  I went through this same crap last year and I wanted to pull my hair out.  Bad part was even if they said they’d do something they didn’t. So I ended-up having to do it myself anyways.

Post # 7
831 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Sigh…. Some just don’t understand the concept of it’s not about them, but for the BRIDE!

Post # 8
1001 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Ugh, I’m sorry they’re being so difficult!  I don’t know why some girls don’t get the “no penis” stuff.  My bridesmaids had to tell my Maid/Matron of Honor several times that I would not appreciate a penis pinata.


Post # 9
1545 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I am so sorry! ugg BMs they just wanna show up and look pretty! lol jk jk

You are being such a great Maid/Matron of Honor and getting everything together. Kudos to you!

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