(Closed) MOH forgets wedding date

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: if your MOH forgets your wedding date, but it has been less than 6 months since, are you hurt?
    Yes : (16 votes)
    18 %
    No : (75 votes)
    82 %
  • Post # 3
    828 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    The best man keeps doing that…

    Post # 4
    4355 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Depends, does she forget everything else too? Like birthdays, plans she makes, etc.. ? I might be a lttle annoyed but not hurt persay.

    Post # 5
    2494 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Not if it was within a month. If I got married in July and someone said November, I’d be annoyed. Frankly, ill be happy if parents and Darling Husband cab remember!

    Post # 6
    236 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I don’t think it would be a huge deal (ie WWIII), but I would be a little hurt.

    Post # 7
    3471 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

    My Maid/Matron of Honor keeps asking me when my wedding date IS! People have busy lives– you have to remeber that your weddings day is not nearly as important to everyone else, and it’s not a measure of how much they care about you, it’s just the fact that each person only has a certain amount of brain capacity and especially after the fact, it’s just not something they need to know at the drop of a hat. 

    Post # 8
    2281 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I can’t remember when my MOH’s wedding was. Sometime in early December. I just remember that I had to drive all the way to where she lives and back one week after making the exact same trip for Thanksgiving (she lives near where my parents lived then). 

    I expect she’ll quickly start thinking of mine as “sometime in the middle of the summer.” 

    It’s an important date for us, but not for anyone else. 

    Post # 10
    1676 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I guess it depends. Is she the type who is forgetful anyway? It would only hurt my feelings if I felt like it meant it was very low priority/didn’t mean anything to her. I have friends who never remember my birthday, but it doesn’t upset me because that’s just how they are. Then again, if the friend who always remembers everyone’s birthday, anniversary, etc. was forgetting, I would be a little hurt. Some people are just better/care more about dates. 

    ETA: I agree with PP. It’s a date that is very important to you and your Darling Husband, but not so much to other people (and that’s ok). I would be happy as long as she could remember a round-about-time (i.e. summer).

    Post # 12
    3618 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    It wouldn’t bother me if my Maid/Matron of Honor forgot my wedding date since i don’t know why she would bother to remember in the first place. Unless she plans on reminding Darling Husband every year for me?

    Post # 13
    3772 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I remember my MOH’s wedding date.. but I think it’s only becuase its was the day before Sept 11 (not the actual attack, just the anniversary) and I remember having to fly on the anniversary. lol

    Post # 14
    5786 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I only care if Darling Husband forgets our wedding date. I’m my friends Maid/Matron of Honor and I know her wedding is the third week of June but I don’t recall the exact date.

    Post # 15
    11234 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @ProfessorGirl:  It’s an important date for us, but not for anyone else.

    Agreed. After the fact, who cares? I’d want her to remember the month, maybe, but other than that, who cares if anyone else remembers when the date was? Maybe if it was BEFORE the wedding.

    Post # 16
    7422 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Nope, i can barely keep track of bdays much less peoples wedding dates.

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