(Closed) MOH getting no help from the other bridesmaids

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
116 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

You certainly have a tricky situation to deal with. You aren’t asking too much of the Bridesmaids at all. All you can do is carry on doing the great job that you’re doing. At least when the wedding is over, you’ll be happy in the knowledge that you did everything you could to make the Bride enjoy her special day. If the other Maid/Matron of Honor and bridesmaids don’t want much involvement, then they shouldn’t have agreed to become bridesmaids in the first place. Being a good bridesmaid is about more than just putting on a pretty dress and smiling for the camera on the wedding day. Ultimately, they are the one’s who are missing out on sharing this experience with the Bride.

Keep doing a fab job x

Post # 4
602 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

It sounds like you’re doing everything you can. The situation sucks, but you can’t force people to participate. Try to work more with the bridesmaid who sounds like she does want to be involved rather than relying on the other MoH.

Post # 5
399 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

When you say send messages I’m assuming text, email, or facebook?  Unfortunately you can only do so much, and if they’re not going to participate and try to get involved then there’s nothing else you can do.  It seems like you’re doing the best you can with what you’ve been given.

The only suggestion I really have is to call them and speak to them over the phone (if you haven’t already).  At least it’ll give you the peace of mind to know that they heard you and understand.

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