MOH Horror Help!!

posted 2 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
722 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

FutureMrsKeller32815:  Not really sure what exactly is the problem with the bachelorette.  Is it that your MOH had a different idea initially than what is being planned now?

And regarding the dress, it sounds like your wedding over 6 months away.  You’re not in rush mode yet for her to find a dress.  Maybe you could give her a deadline of say, 2 more months to find and order a dress, and if she can’t find something, you will just order her the same as everyone else, but in a larger size, so that it can be taken in if she isn’t preggo, or as-is if she is preg.

Post # 4
2173 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

1) As far the bachelorette party, it should be something YOU want, not what she wants.  If she can’t go to AC for whatever reason, just let it go.  It sounds like if she feels forced to go, she’ll be miserable company anyways.

2) As far as the dress goes, you’re still six months out, so it’s not panic time.  That said, if the sole reason she’s waiting on the dress is to see if she gets pregnant, she doesn’t need lots of time.  I know every person is different, but generally women don’t show until 3/4 months along.  So if you’re four months out from your wedding and she still isn’t pregnant, she should just order the dress.  You do get to set guidelines for the dress even if she is pregnant.  (At this point, the most she’ll be is six months.)  You can tell her what color and style, even if you don’t give the exact dress.  Generally my thought is that if the BM doesn’t get the dress, they’re not a BM.

3) It sucks that your friend is moving to Florida.  You may have to adjust your expectations in what her role is in the wedding.  Would she still be able to come?

Post # 5
11604 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Apple_Blossom:  I agree with all of this.

I also want to point out that January is not at all pool/bikini weathers in the North East.

Post # 6
716 posts
Busy bee

Horror?  What horror?

Bachelorette – Show some leadership and state what it is that you would like.

Dress – She is probably waiting until closer to the Wedding to best accomodate her body if she is pregnant, which she doesn’t know and this time.

Florida – Ok, so you’ll have to take a space ship to have any contact with her at all, yea, that stinks.

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