MOH is at it again…

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

Wow you are being plenty diplomatic about this. What small cap sleeve is going to insulate her from the cold?! If she wants to be warm she should defo go with the shawl idea – so she has already debunked her excuse. Crazy mofo. 

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@FutureMrsKenward:  Well I don’t think cap sleeves are going to help shield her from the cold, lol. I would stand by what you said. Seems reasonable: either she pays $50 to get the sleeves sewn on or she can “buy” the dress from you and do what she wants.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

she seems like she is TRYING to be difficult. i think you gave her plenty of options and if she doesnt take one of those, maybe she just doesn’t want to be in the wedding

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

You should tell her that cap sleeves are only going to draw more attention to her “fat arms”.

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

they all look great and those are pretty dresses. 

 

I think your response to her was very reasonable, especially given how unreasonable her behavior is.

 

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Wow.  That is difficult.  Honestly, I would have probably asked her to step down by now.  It’s YOUR day, not hers.  She should have the honour of even being asked to be an MOH so she should be complying to you.  if she gets more and more and more difficult, I would just say that I have had enough of you.  You’re ruining my special day.  All I want is for the special people to enjoy my special day with me and you’re ruining it with stupid demands.  If you are not happy with the way I’m runnign MY wedding, then you are welcome step down and I will have someone else be my MOH.  See what she has to say to that.  My cousin had to do that to her MOH and her MOH decided to stop throwing a fit and actually do what my cousin wants (and my cousin is already so laid back and super nice and low maintenance and to have her be that mad at her MOH is saying something).

 

Those dresses are GORGEOUS btw.  I LOVE the fit and everything!! If only I could find nice dresses like those!! And I agree with someof the other girls,  having cap sleeves would so draw more attention to her arms.  A shawl would be lovely with them I say if they are wanting to be more comfortable.

Post # 13
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@FutureMrsKenward:  If she said “okay” after you gave her the option of paying the $50 to add cap sleeves or buying the dress, then just leave the ball in her court. It’s her decision to make.

Is she always like this? How did she get to be such a good friend that you would pick her as MOH?

Post # 15
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1021 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

ugh, ask her if she doesn’t want to be in the wedding.

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