(Closed) MOH is driving me nuts!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

This is what you’re mad about? That this girl was nice to your fiance’s family? Why do you put it like she’s picking sides? I think she probably just thinks its proper for her to be as nice as possible to her friends new family. My sister is my MOH and I haven’t introduced her to my in laws but I certainly wouldn’t be mad if she was being overly nice to them…

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Is it possible that she is just being nice? I don’t think that being nice to your fiance’s mother means that she won’t be there to support you on your day. Honestly, it seems like you are making a big deal out of nothing. 

Do you not have a good relationship with your in-laws? Are you maybe jealous that your MIL and your MOH get along well? This is all just conjecture…I just can’t see any other reason why you would care that your MOH is friendly to the people involved in the wedding.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I think you are majorly overreacting. Majorly. Are you jealous because your FI’s family likes her? Why would that make you jealous?

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

At the end of the day, when your FMIL goes home and says “So-and-so was such a nice girl!” it only reflects positively on you.  It sounds like you distrust her though… Did something happen in the past that makes you think she has ulterior motives?

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Be on your side? Were you arguing with your in-laws about something?

I’m confused… Isn’t this a good thing that they get along? My MOH has never met my FI’s parents, but my FI’s best man has met my parents a few times and even went to visit them once when we weren’t around. I thought it was really sweet that he did that and I love that FI’s best friend gets along so wonderfully with my parents!!

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Even if she is sucking up, I still don’t see why its a bad thing. She wants the MIL to like her. Weird, maybe? But really, why do you care?

Post # 11
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2742 posts
Sugar bee

Um, okay, well, are you guys surprised at the OP? Seriously, I honestly never know when to take you serious because some of your threads *smh*

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@TG20: Sorry, but you sound ridiculous and paranoid right now. You need to relax!

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@TG20: Do you have a reason to be suspicious though? I mean really, do you think she’s going to try and steal them all from you? What motive could she possibly have? I think you’re looking for something thats not there.

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