(Closed) MOH isnt being very nice

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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8354 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

Sorry you are having to go through this, but what about gifting the girls the chucks. Chucks aren’t really my style either, and I know I would never wear them again, but if the bride gifted them to me, I would be happier to wear them. Also, your wedding is only a little over a month away and she just may not have the funds to make another purchase. I kept the costs to a minimum for my girls. Basically all they had to pay for was their travel. I paid for everything else; including their dresses and shoes.

Post # 5
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311 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Chucks are pretty inexpensive so the PP’s ideas are good. If you can’t pay and she still doesn’t like the idea that they “aren’t her style”, well… tell her to wear whatever she wants then. If everyone else in the bridal party will be wearing chucks I am sure she will decide to get in the spirit and if she doesn’t… she’ll feel like the silly one. Or if she’s having enough fun no one will notice and the pictures will be cute and funny with one person wearing different shoes. I think no sense arguing with a friend over $50 shoes.

 

 

Post # 6
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8354 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

@Jasminelani: You are very welcome, and it will make for very cute pictures 🙂

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