(Closed) MOH lives abroad. Should I make my local bridesmaid co-MOH?

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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2641 posts
Sugar bee

Ultimately, if you think it’s easier just to have two MOH, just do it.  When I see a wedding that has one BM and one MOH, I kind of feel bad for the BM.  Like, "Hi, I came in second."  If you have more Bms (3+) and one is picked as MOH, that seems to feel a bit differently.  Just my own thoughts.

Post # 4
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410 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

My MOH lives in london for part of the year and then 6 hours from me the rest for school.  She is my only attendant, but even if she werent, she would be my MOH.  Even though she cant get to my wedding site until a couple days before the wedding she is there for me online as much as she can be.  We email eachother a lot and she is there emotionally for me which is almost more importan than having he rphysically there to do the DIY stuff.

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I am co-MOH in my best friend’s wedding. She wanted her sister to be MOH but her sister is super busy with school and doesn’t have as much time to commit.  Also in a lot of ways I know this friend’s tastes better than her sister.  Its been great so far.  Her sister and I have really become close friends.  (I even asked her sister to sing at my own wedding.)  You need a lot of help planning a wedding and having 2 people that committed to you can’t hurt. 

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