(Closed) MOH nightmare!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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5668 posts
Bee Keeper

Punch her in the face? Kidding, but sheesh, I don’t know. She seems hellbent on getting a rise out of you, so by not freaking out you’re not giving her the satisfaction she’s looking for. I think ultimately you have to just ignore here and keep on keepin’ on. /hugs

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@noaliaqui: You let her know how you feel… She is trying to steal your thunder and thats not right

 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Well… maybe you can just change your mind about letting her switch dresses lol. That’ll piss her off.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I know a lot of people say “you get one day”, which in so many cases IS true…but this is actually ridiculous. You need to speak up and tell her how you feel. And if she wants to cry and freak out, let her. She is being really unreasonable.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

First I want to say I’m sorry about your mom.  I lost my mom when I was a teen and the hurt has been unbearable during the wedding planning process so you have my sympathy and empathy.

As for your sister, I would go old school and punch her dead in her eye (just kidding…sort of…lol).  Seriously, she is way out of line and really you should request that she change her renewal to a date AFTER your wedding.  As for the bridesmaid’s dress I would tell her that you changed your mind and decided everyone needs to stay in their dresses the whole night.  This is YOUR day and what she’s trying to do is f-ing wrong! (Sorry but this kinda crap really pisses me off!).

Post # 10
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2786 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@noaliaqui: Ok, now you’re just messing with us! I might actually come punch her FOR you.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@noaliaqui: Dude seriously?  I would just call your sister out on her selfishness.  And I KNOW it’s a big no-no around here, but I would seriously consider asking her to step down if she can’t act right.  She’s being totally ridiculous.

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

@sara_tiara:  Oh, oh, can I be next in line?  Please?

OP, I’m sorry you’re dealing with all this.  It sounds like she’s just completely insane.  It also sounds like you’re dealing with it in the most gracious and level-headed way possible, and I really commend you for that.  Just keep being you.

Or, you know, let me and sara_tiara know where your sister hangs out so she can have a black eye to match her black dress.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

It’s really weird she’s acting this way, and I’m so sorry you are put in this position, especially so close to your wedding. Just be honest with her about how you feel (assuming you are comfortable doing that), and ask her to move it.

To be honest, if she doesn’t she is going to look like a royal b*tch to all your guests.

Post # 15
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@noaliaqui:That is not right!!!! I would definitely confront her!

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