- 6 years ago
- Wedding: December 1969
I am getting married next weekend and my MOH has been my best friend for 7 years. Her and her boyfriend broke up 3 months ago and since then she complains to me when she sees people getting engaged on facebook, okay I understand but you are my MOH, complain about marriage to someone one. She never wants to talk about my wedding with me or help me plan anything. Since she doesn’t have a lot of money and I only have a MOH and 1 BM I bought their dresses for them. I am also paying for their hair and their makeup. She went out and spent $50 last weekend on alcohol (when she always complain about being broke) and now she can’t pay $20 for my bachelorette party (which had to be thrown by my BM because my MOH wouldn’t throw one for me). I am trying to be understanding, I realize she is not in the best place, but shouldn’t she still act happy for me, and act like she wants to be a part of my wedding? Or am I just being selfish?
I just need some advice/support