Post # 1
So I was blessed to have 2 best friends. One lives in CA, and the other in NJ. I live in FL and the wedding will be in FL. In the last two yrs I became close friend with a coworker, she became bestie #3. And let me add that i have two sisters. Ok so Bestie NJ was going to be Maid/Matron of Honor, Bestie CA was going to be matron of honor, but Bestie #3 is playing the part of Maid/Matron of Honor because we live in the same town. My sisters called upset that they are not MOH’s. GRRRR this is driving my CRAZY!!!!!. So solution will be just to have bridesmaids. No MOHs!
So what do you think? Any one esle having a similar problem?
Post # 3
I think its a fantastic idea
Post # 4
I agree. Maid/Matron of Honor just sets up another level of hierarchy. I like the idea of calling them all bridesmaids, especially in your situation where each of the 5 girls is close in their own way.
Post # 5
I think in your case no Maid/Matron of Honor would be the best decision then no one will feel hurt. In my case I have 2 close friends but since I’m having 2 ceremonies I was able to have one as a Maid/Matron of Honor for each
Post # 6
I think in your case, I would ask everyone to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man just to avoid the hurt feelings from your sisters.
Post # 7
I love the idea of no Maid/Matron of Honor I think you have the right idea there!