MOH problems.. Am I being demanding? Feeling crazy.

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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3089 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@MlleDarcy:  She is being a little ridiculous if she is wanting you to pay for everything but her plane ticket.  She needs to take some responsibility, especially if you have been up front about what you were going to be paying for all along.  I think you are being more than generous!

Post # 4
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11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

If she hasn’t bought the dress yet, I would offer to subsidize her ticket to have her just come as a guest!

Post # 5
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127 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@Brideonabudgetlauren:  I agree 100%. If you have been upfront from the start then you have done nothing wrong and are not being demanding. If she can’t cope with the financial responsibility of being in the wedding party then she shouldn’t be. 

Post # 6
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127 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@Brideonabudgetlauren:  I agree 100%. If you have been upfront from the start then you have done nothing wrong and are not being demanding. If she can’t cope with the financial responsibility of being in the wedding party then she shouldn’t be. 

Post # 7
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157 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@MlleDarcy:  

I’m dealing with a difficult MOH as well.  You are being more than generous!!  I would just offer to pay for her ticket to come as a guest.  You dont need the extra stress!

Post # 8
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6812 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

No one paid for anything when I was MOH/BM and I always contribute to bach and bridal showers, no matter how broke I am.

Tell her to come as a guest.

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