(Closed) MOH question – am i being reasonable?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Honey bee

@ihaveaquestion:  Have you asked her for a girls night while youre there? If she’s your best friend, just ask her! Don’t assume the worst.

And for what it’s worth, my FI would probably stick around for a bit to be friendly and then leave so we could have our “girly” time as he calls it.

Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

i don’t know how you can dictate this, especially as she is hosting you.  i would just say, “id love some girl time- wanna spend one evening getting margaritas just you and me so we can dish about the boys?” or something like that

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I think it’s reasonable, but I would be careful about “excluding” her BF, especially since she’s hosting you. I would probably just suggest a few hours at a fun location for “girls’ time” and see what she says.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think it’s good to have some girl time. Just lightly ask if she can think of some fun stuff for you two to do together. If she is your best friend she should understand!

 

 

 

 

Post # 7
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46155 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

She can’t read your mind. Ask if it’s a possibility. He may already have planned something for himself so he’s not in the way.

Post # 8
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2014

If you make a big effort with her boyfriend and ask about them etc, I think it’s ok to let her know that you have missed her and that you *hope* you get a bit if time on your own too to just be best friends and Girly! I it were me I’d ensure to mention him positively, eg, can’t wait to try Richards infamous home made curry! Will be so much fun seeing you in your best all loved up etc, but balance that with a wee, I’ve missed you and am looking forward to an hour or two just us if we can work it out 😉 I would appreciate that approach if I were on the receiving end, and think my fi would be understanding too 🙂 good luck honey! Xox

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

when my FI hears the words “mani/pedi” out of my mouth, he is nowhere to be found 😉 lol i would just ask her!

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