(Closed) MOH v. Bridesmaid? IDK!

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Is your friend married? You could always do a Maid of honor and Matron of honor if your friend is married. If not, what about if you just didnt have a MOH, and maybe had co-MOH, that way the details can be split, and no ones feelings are getting hurt. I am the matron of honor at my best friends wedding, and her sister is themaid of honor, i am still helping plan the bachelorette party and all as well. I hope this helps!!! 🙂

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I had a Maid and a Matron but one of my BM is the one who actually planned my shower.   I only had one BM living in the same city as me so my girls didn’t get here til the day before the wedding and everyone just pitched in. I had a total of 9 ladies.  I actually had a friend who was not in the wedding party offer to throw me a shower.

Now, if I could go back in time, I would’ve made them all just BM or all Maid and Matrons.   We are all super close.  It just could’ve been my photographer but he kept putting emphasis on my Maid and Matron and kind of pushed the BM in the back and it made me feel a way.   It made me feel like I was saying to the BM that the other 2 were more important.

Post # 6
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67 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@PrettyinPink45: I am so happy it all worked out for you!!! I wish you and FI the best of luck, and best wishes for the future! 🙂

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

You can have more then one maid of honor. You can have a matron of honor and a maid of honor. You don’t have to have a maid of honor at all. Unless everyone is in matching dresses except for the MOH, it’s really just a title.

Post # 8
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

@PrettyinPink45:  my sis is a BM but not my MOH. We arent that close. My MOH is my best friend who has been there my whole life. I have pics at my 3rd birthday party and sitting right next to me was my best friend. She will be right by my side at the wedding. My sister’s feelings were not hurt at all. My mom’s on the other hand…..but oh well. It’s my wedding and same goes for you!

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

@PrettyinPink45:  my sis is a BM but not my MOH. We arent that close. My MOH is my best friend who has been there my whole life. I have pics at my 3rd birthday party and sitting right next to me was my best friend. She will be right by my side at the wedding. My sister’s feelings were not hurt at all. My mom’s on the other hand…..but oh well. It’s my wedding and same goes for you!

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