- 10 years ago
Hi girls! I have one maid of honor (my cousin who I asked mostly because my mom wanted me to) and three bridesmaids. I was my cousin’s MOH when she married last year and planned a really nice shower Shes going out of the country and won’t be back until two weeks before my wedding. I brought up having a shower and she wasn’t apologetic at all about not being involved. I understand she can’t be here, but thought the least she could do was put together an e-mail to my bridesmaids and hand it over to them, or even help plan the beginning stages before she leaves.
So, is it strange if I just make the other three bridesmaids all maids of honor? Two of them even expected to be MOH in the first place, as they are my lifelong friends, and the third is very close and super helpful.
I feel like the deserve the title more than my cousin, mostly because I am closer with them, and especially now since she’s not showing any interest in helping with the shower/wedding. I know it’s not a requirement to have a shower, but thought it would be obvious since i threw hers so recently. Thanks for the advice! I’m normally very low-key but am finding myself disappointed and not feeling right about her honorable title!