(Closed) Mom trying to surprise me with decor?

posted 6 years ago in Decor
Post # 3
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1090 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

haha! Oh no! That would not work with me either! Tell her that you would like to be involved & it’s not that you don’t trust her….but it is an important part of all the rest of the decisions for the wedding.

 

Post # 4
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2095 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I have very different tastes from my mother so I can certainly understand. I would not be ok with this myself. But I am not the type to be surprised about things like that.

Post # 5
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1137 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

her first idea was a pinata …. this doesn’t really help her case. i probably wouldn’t be comfortable with this either. 

Post # 6
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1212 posts
Bumble bee

Oh heck no. No way would I be down with “suprise” decorations. No no no.

Post # 7
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1014 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

nope, i wouldn’t be okay with this… and I actually had a pinata at my wedding!!!  even though my mom has really good taste, I’d be worried about someone going crazy with tulle, hearts and other cheezy wedding decor.

Post # 8
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1280 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I wouldn’t do it, I would tell her that it is important that she be part of your day, but just being there for you and you would hate for her to spend so much time and effort on the decorations when its already been taken care of, it is a needless task, maybe she could work on sometime else? (favors?? just a thought)….Good Luck…I know each person has their own vision and taste, and sometimes its okay to be a bridezilla and tell your mom NO….again Good Luck!

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