- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
Hi Ladies!!!! I am writing to vent about my FI. I love him so much, and am very excited to spend the rest of my life with him. BUT, he is such a momma’s boy. He talks on the phone to her all day, everyday (in fact, he is on the phone with her right now as I am writing this.)
I have had a discussion with him before on my concerns with him “jumping” to his mothers every command, and he has slacked down on going to her house everytime she calls, etc. He says once we are married, it “won’t be like this.” However, this constant phone thing is really annoying. Don’t get me wrong, I love his mother, and we get along perfectly. (here it comes again) But, does he have to talk to her all day long? I mean three plus times a day, he is talking to her. Even while she was on vacation, she felt the need to call throughout the day to give a “play by play” of everything.
What hurts even more is that he won’t talk to me for most of the day, but can get on the phone and laugh and talk to her all day.
Family is a delicate subject, and I am trying to tread lightly and choose my battles, but I am going to scream if I her her ringtone go off agian!!! I maybe over reacting, but I just wanted some opinions. Am I the only one who feels like this?