Mom\\\'s input on sleeping arrangement

posted 3 years ago in Babies
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I think this idea is great. With our baby on the way, we plan on rooming him/her in our bedroom for quite a number of months before we even set up the nursery. It’ll be a bit crowded, but it’s a lot easier on me, and the risk of SIDS is also lowered!

For us, the babies room with our first DD was pretty useless until she was able to get herself around and play with things. She did sleep in her nursery, but that was about it.

Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

We had our little one with us in our room in a bassinet for his first 5 months.  However, had your plan been possible for our house arrangement, I would have definitely considered it.  It seems like you really thought this through and I think it’s an awesome plan.  The biggest benefit is, if it doesn’t work out, you can change it pretty easily :).  Best of luck with the move and baby!

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with your plan! I will say though that we tried sleeping DS in our room at first and it was a horrific failure. We kept waking each other up all night, babies grunt a lot when they sleep and every little sound sets you off worrying. So he made the transition to his nursery pretty much instantly and everyone was a lot happier. But with your arrangement you can do that as well so you have all your bases covered!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I could be totally off but I thought babies didn’t sleep in full sized cribs at first. My nephew slept in a bassinet all swaddled at an angle so he could breathe better. It probably depends on the baby. 

I think the room you’re talking about is fine though. 

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

Most mommies of newborns I know just use a little bassinet in their room for the first few months instead of a crib. Every family and baby is different. Your plan sounds good!

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

Sounds like a great plan. Let’s hope your little one agrees! My baby will only sleep if she’s in bed next to me 🙁

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

 

keesl:  I had a bassinet with wheels on it when my son was small. he slept in there almost exclusively until he grew out of it. That way he didn’t get used to sleeping with us, but also wasn’t in another room. Plus that dang bassinet saved me so much! I could just wheel him from room to room while he was sleeping during the day so I could get things done instead of relying on a monitor.

But it sounds like you have a plan and it doesn’t sound like a bad idea!

Post # 10
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Sugar bee

keesl:  I have a 3 month old, so I am just going through this. I say, be loose with your plan. I wanted my son in my room with me for 6 months. He outgrew his bassinet at like 9w and I moved him to his crib. He was a good sleeper from the beginning but I was waking up at every single noise. Since he moved to his crib we have both been sleeping so well. Just be flexible! A lot of my mama friends have been nervous about moving baby to his/her own room and they all say everyone is sleeping better.

As for the flexibility- it really will serve you well to not have plans for anything baby related set in stone! Oh and be careful with the rock n play. Lots of babies get flat head with those!

Post # 11
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Busy Beekeeper

To me, a bassinet makes sense and would be worth it, both for a cozier, more secure feeling place to sleep for the baby, and for the inconvenience of having to move to a crowded room and then move back, yourselves. Another advantage is that you will have a quiet, nearby  place to go when the baby wakes up at night that won’t disturb the sleeping spouse.

As you say, the baby won’t know the difference, and if you transition to cribs for daytime naps, the adjustment is seamless. For us, it also gave us the flexibility to finish decorating the nursery, since we did not know the sex ahead of time, plus we wanted to wait until after the baby was here. But cribs are certainly approved for newborns and if your strategy works for you that is really all that matters.

Post # 12
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Busy Beekeeper

mamadingdong:  That advice goes against current recommendations that babies should be in the same room, but not in the same bed.  As the OP mentioned this is associated with a significant reduction in SIDS. 

Post # 13
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Sugar bee

weddingmaven:  The only advice I offered was to be flexible. I shared my own experience, which is pretty much what she was asking. I never said “don’t share a room with your baby.”

I’m not sure what you consider to be significant or even where you find any specific statistics as to what degree room sharing decreases the incidence of SIDS to use the phrase “significant reduction.”

There are several risk factors to avoid and room sharing is recommended but there is no data that show an associated risk reduction. And I am not opposed to room sharing- I did it. And I planned to do it longer, but things changed.

 

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I think it sounds like a great plan! It’ll probably make the transition much easier once she goes to sleep by herself. 

I cannot recommend the “babybay” bed highly enough. It’s perfect for when you’re breastfeeding Because you don’t need to get up at night. 

DD is almost 9 months old and still sleeping in her babybay – that is unless she’s sleeping in our bed in between us 😉 (when she wakes at around 4 am, I tend to just fall asleep and leave her in our bed.)

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Sounds like a good plan if it works for you and baby that’s all that matters! I second pp of having a loose plan and realizing things may not work the way you planned! 

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