(Closed) Money a problem?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Worker bee

@Anxiouspeanut: I know, waiting is tough, especially when finances get in the way of, well, everything. Are you open to moissanite/asha/CZ right now, as they are significantly cheaper? I know for me, it’s just not something I want but will settle for any type of diamond.

Hang in there, and maybe talk to your SO about what you’re thinking and what your concerned with.

Post # 5
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Worker bee

@Anxiouspeanut: yep, i’m definitely feeling similar frustrations. but, in the meantime, have you asked him for a definite timeline? I have a loose one as to when I can even begin to expect a ring (damn ldr and school) but maybe you might be able to get a firmer one. That way, you won’t have to be waiting around for the “what if?” and you’ll have a better idea as to what he’s doing/planning.

 

best of luck!

Post # 7
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90 posts
Worker bee

@Anxiouspeanut: chin up! i bet there are more bees like us. why not give yourself monthly check ins to keep the conversation going with your SO? Unfortunately, I’m in the same boat as he has total control over everything. It’s just so weird because for all of the gifts he’s gotten me he’s essentially made me pick as he doesn’t want to get me something I won’t like.

ugh, men!

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