Post # 1
so..our 1 year anniversary is Saturday. 🙂 but im 100% certain its not going to happen. and thats ok.
his cousin is a jeweler in Penn. and we were supposed to go up there to visit family and see his store. Trip got cancelled. so i was pretty bummed, but then started asking more and more questions.
we are moving in together in November. very excited, so thats distracting me. which i need.
then last night i got the courage to ask about custom designing a ring.
this was the convo:
“does your cousin do custom work?”
“Would you consider do something custom for us?”
“what about my ring?”
“babe, im focused on getting a stone first. im sure whatever i end up getting for you will be custom”
I FREAKED OUT!!!!!! (without him knowing)
“So I cant have any input or any suggestions?”
“Babe, you have dropped enough hints and I pay more attn than you think. If you dont like what you get, well talk then.”
FREAK OUT AGAIN.
Post # 3
Are you looking for suggestions about what to do next? Is this a vent? What are you wanting from us here?
Post # 4
@nolapeanut: I love “ring talk”. He seems like he’s got his stuff together. Maybe stop asking unless he asks you what you want.
Post # 5
When you say “freak out” you mean in a good way right? Because it sounds like your guy is doing what he’s supposed to be doing lol….
Post # 6
@nolapeanut: Good for you. Most be exciting and you need a place to freak out on lol. I think it’s sweet he gave you just enough info to calm you and know it’s coming at some point in time but left out enough info for you to freak out lol. Good luck with the move and the other step your relationship would soon be taking.
Post # 7
I hope you’re all right that the OP is happy about the “freak out”.
I read it as that she was “freaking out” in a bad way because she doesn’t get more input. If thats the case, then I don’t have anything nice to say.
Post # 8
@Miss Leopard: I think the OP is just sharing how excited she is. Nothing wrong with that.
@nolapeanut: Good luck! Hopefully he has been paying as much attention as he says and the ring is perfect once it’s finally on your finger!
Post # 9
@Miss Leopard: Yeah it all just sounded like squeetastic excitement to me.
Post # 10
its an exciting freak out and am super excited! this was just a vent post and i appreciate all of your support!