- 6 years ago
This past weekend, I put my back out and basically SO was my nursemaid and took care of me and the kids all weekend. I was on the couch constantly and couldn’t do a thing (I’m still recovering, ugh). Anyway, we had a really awesome weekend together, and it feels like we got even closer than we normally are. I don’t know how, but rings were brought up again ??? I dont know if it was myself or him, and i was showing him some moissanite rings I liked online. I then mentioned the wedding band and he got this befuddled look on his face. To make a long story short, he’s really quite clueless about rings and what they all entail, why a woman wears two rings etc, why there is a wedding band AND an engagement ring, and I had to explain it to him. He was acting a bit like an ass to be honest, and I was in pain, and couldn’t take explaining it to him, so I just shut the computer off and slowly made my way back to the couch, just trying to forget about it. Well, not 2 minutes later, he comes back to me on the couch and starts going on and on about wedding rings and the cost (in a nice way)…and then looks at me with a cute grin and and says “I’m already out enough money!!!”. And then he walked away really fast so I couldn’t catch up to him, laughing the whole time.
What a stinker!! I couldn’t get up right away, but as soon as I got over to him, his whole face crumpled up into a “i’m guilty” smile! ARRRGGGHHH!!! I think he does this just to push my buttons lol.
Ohhh…and I forgot one thing…the most important thing. In my other post, I mentioned how he doesn’t like to say anything about spending his life with me (he does it through his actions instead), and wouldn’t feel comfortable saying that until he was ready to propose. Well, while I was laid up on the couch saturday night, we were talking about how I wanted to lose weight and he looks at me and says “you’re already my trophy wife”….then caught himself and said “will be my trophy wife” EEEEEEEK!!!!!!!!!
That being said, with the other post I did before the weekend, and this one…it has to be happening sometime soon. If it wasn’t, he wouldn’t be joking and telling me he’s already spent enough money. Crossing my fingers it will happen this weekend when we’re with my family, but if not….then that’s ok. At least I know it WILL happen now. I’m so excited!!!!