(Closed) More MOH drama…ugh…vent

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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406 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

This girl is an accident waiting to happen and it all sounds like she’s being driven by jealousy and is trying to do something embarrassing deliberately.  Why else would she be doing these things?  She may not even know why she’s being evil- but I suggest giving her a chance to hostess something naughty like a lingerie party for the girls… if she says no, well, that was her chance.  I certainly don’t blame you for not wanting a stripper- who wants some stranger writhing all over you a few nights before your wedding?  Let her have a chance to have her “outlet”- my guess is she won’t take it because she won’t have the kind of audience she wants.  Then, after the wedding, I’d rethink this relationship.  I am old, and I have had to part from several dysfunctional relationships.  Believe me, there are better people out there to have for friends than someone who purposefully goes against your wishes on your important occasions. 

Post # 5
Member
406 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Yes, I think you are right- YOU are the target here, for whatever reason.  Keep your head up and have some plan B.’s available in case she’s a no show.  I am so sorry that you are dealing with this right now- be safe.

Post # 6
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1371 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

What was the previous fight about?  Do you think this is just a continuation?  I agree with FMILady, this sounds like a jealousy issue.  And also like she is very immature and has poor etiquette.  Any true friend would not try to plan you something you did not want.

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