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How soon were you able to see a doctor? Both times I've seen doctors at 8 weeks. It's normal to wait until that point because there's a high risk of loss.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? With Moose, I was sick the entire time, like 6 times a day. Awfulness! With Wombat, it's been come and go, mostly dealing with smells or getting hungry and not eating. Try Natural Brew's Outrageous Ginger Ale. It really helped me.
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? I've heard this from a lot of pregnant women, but I never felt that way.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? We told people around the end of the first trimester with both, some much later. It wasn't hard and isn't hard, but there's a lot of drama in my family and I don't want to deal with that.
Did you have cramps? I get baby growing pains, but ask your doctor about it when you go in. Make sure to make a list because it's easy to forget your questions in the excitment.
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? I picked mine out on my own. The first ones made me constipaited, so I switched. Now I use Nature's Plus Ultra Prenatal. They're awesome. For DHA, I take Fisol fish oil.
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? The best thing to do is call your doctor and get them to give you a list of good meds and bad foods. They should be willing to give you this now. And yes, Tylenol is fine although no medication is 100% safe. Soda really depends on you though. Some women give up caffine, some don't. Some women watch their sugar intake, some don't That is your choice. Do your own research to decide.
If you have any questions, please ask. Send me a PM if you want.
How soon were you able to see a doctor? I didn't see a Dr. until 9 weeks. I did go in for a consult and bloodwork around 6 weeks
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? I'm feeling pretty good throughout but yes symptoms of all kinds come and go daily.
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? Yes, but I keep reminding myself that the HCG can stay in your system for up to 8 weeks after you miscarry so it really doesn't tell me anything.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? It wasn't as hard as I thought. We told my family at 7 weeks, his family at 8 weeks, a few close friends between 10-12 weeks and will tell work and others at 13 weeks.
Did you have cramps? Yes, they come and go as well. Now at 13 weeks its turned into round ligament pain.
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? I LOVE my vitamins from Natures Plus (not natures made). They are all from natural food sources so nothing artificial. Natures Made and Womens One a Day both had artificial coloring and other stuff that I just didn't want to take.
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? Yes, Tylenol is ok, but I would talk to your Dr. about what dose is appropriate. I avoided caffeine during my first trimester which included soda, tea, etc. They say you can have about 200 mg a day but it has also been shown that women that drink more than that increase their rate of miscarrage significantly. Also, my Dr. advised that if I drank soda or tea, it shouldn't count towards the 64-80 ounces of water you should be drinking per day. You need to actually drink more water if you drink caffeine to help flush it out of your system.
How soon were you able to see a doctor? I took a HPT about a week after I missed my period and it was positive. I called my MD that Monday and they wouldn't see me until I was 9 weeks, so I had to wait almost 4 weeks for my first appointment. They just did a vaginal ultrasound to date the pregnancy and gave me some information. My next appointment wasn't until closer to 12/13 weeks. I've heard of first appointments being anywhere from 8-12 weeks.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? Morning sickness was a misnomer for me, it was more like all day sickness. I felt especially sick after breakfast and after dinner, but was nauseous all the time. Sea bands, crackers, ginger ale all helped a little bit. I finally got some zofran for when I was traveling.
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? No, I didn't, but I can see why people do. It was hard to really "feel" pregnant until the baby started to kick.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? We waited until 12 weeks to tell everyone, including our parents, my mom was shocked I was able to keep it a secret that long.
Did you have cramps? I had cramps in the beginning and I thought my period was just late. They went away for me around 6 or 7 weeks. I don't think light cramps are uncommon though. Sometimes it can just be your uterus and ligaments stretching.
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use?
I have Rainbow Light vitamins. My Dr didn't recommend a specific brand, but an OB who works with my MIL did and that is why I got them. They seem to be very complete and have more minerals and vitamins than my previous prenatal did. They also offer them in mini form so you can take 3 small pills instead of 1 large one.
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda?
I took tylenol maybe 3 times at the very beginning when I was having bad headaches. I haven't taken any since then, but in moderation I don't think it is a problem. Definitely use plain tylenol though and not advil, etc. I avoided soda for the first 14 weeks or so and after that I'd have a sip of my husbands or maybe order one for myself. At 31 weeks it seems like if I drink a sweet drink it gives my baby the hiccups. My Dr said it is best to avoid "Dark" sodas like coke or pepsi, but that sprite and ginger ale are fine. Under 200 mg of caffeine a day is what they said and a soda really doesn't have anything close to that in it.
How soon were you able to see a doctor? I got my first official apt. at 10 weeks I think. I had some spotting at 5 weeks so I went in then, and then some bleeding at 9 weeks where I just went to the ER, not my OB.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? It was usually constant for me. Some days were worse then others, but it was always there. Until 10 weeks, then it left me!
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? No, but I always wanted to hear the heart beat to make sure everything was ok. I looked into the at home ones, but I read it was hard to find the heartbeat so early at home (and I learned it's hard at the OB's too, I'm 16 weeks and they had trouble finding it), and I didn't want to freak out thinking there was no heart beat.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? Yes. Especially b/c it was so hard to go out with people. Restaurant smells made me want to puke, so going out to dinner with people was awful. Towards the end I just skipped going to dinner altogether, unless it was with family who knew and could understand. But I felt it was important not to tell people, so we didn't.
Did you have cramps? I didn't get cramps, but I did and do have pains sometimes. I feel like it's just my uterus growing and stretching.
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? I'm not a good pill swallower so I found my own. They're gummies, and they don't taste yummy but at least I can get them down. My doctor said it was fine to take over the counter, and I figure they're cheaper too.
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? You have to weigh the risks and benefits for meds. Tylenol is fine in moderation b/c your baby can get addicted to it if you take it too often. For me, I had to take a lot of meds. It was terrifying for me, but I didn't have much choice b/c my migraines were so severe. I ended up going to the ER probably 3 times in the first trimester b/c I didn't know what to do. If you're concerned about what you can take, just call your doctor and they'll have a nurse tell you what is ok. My OB has a website that lists all meds ok for pregnancy on it. I heard soda is ok once a day, but like you I just don't want to drink it. I figure it's not something I need, so I just don't. If I crave a soda, I'll drink Sprite or something without caffeine.
I did not realize that about HCG levels and miscarriages. That is good to know, but...oh crap.
How soon were you able to see a doctor? I saw my OB/GYN at 4 weeks, 5 weeks, 7 weeks, and 11 weeks the first trimester. Each doctor is different on how often/when they want to see you.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? I had morning sickness from week 5 to week 20. Towards the end some days were way better than others but for the most part, at least one point in the day/night I felt nauseated.
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? I did until I started getting symptoms of pregnancy. The first two weeks I wanted to take one a day to make sure!
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? Very hard. I wanted to wait and tell my family all together at the end of the 1st tri but that did not happen. I needed support from my mom and sister so they were told around week 6/7.
Did you have cramps? Luckily, not really. Unless of course they are tied to indigestion issues.
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? I was put on prenatals 6 months before we were TTC so mine are prescription. I'm on Duet DHA Balanced.
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? Regular tylenol is okay. Due to migraines I had to get a prescription for Tylenol 3 for awhile but other than that, nothing. Once my morning sickness went away I drink a cup of coffee each day. The word these days seems to be that caffeine is okay in moderation.
How soon were you able to see a doctor? I found out on a Friday night, so I wasn't able to call my doctor until Monday. I called my endocrinologist that day and she scheduled me for blood tests and an appt right away. She wanted to make sure that my thyroid levels were on par because I guess the fetus' endocrine system doesn't start forming until 12 weeks so she wanted to get on it ASAP. I haven't even scheduled my prenatal appt because from what I hear they won't see you until you're about 10 weeks (like you said).
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? I have had 0 episodes of morning sickness. They only way I knew I was pregnant was alcohol tasted funny, I had smeel-o-vision (as I call it) and I missed my period. I'm hoping I'm not jinxing myself :)
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? I do feel the need to take a test EVERY DAY. I feel like if I go to my appt and find out I lost the baby or I'm no longer pregnant I'd be a jackass. It's just a feeling of security (I still check the toilet paper for blood every time I wipe)...
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? We don't want to tell anyone until 12 weeks. It's extremely hard not to shout it from the roof tops. We both told our bosses (I work at a nuclear power plant and that's protocol so I really didn't have an option).
Did you have cramps? I got all my regular period symptoms. I was spotting, cramping really bad, having cravings and then over night they seemed to disappear. I have cramps every day. My doctor says it's normal :)
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? I haven't been prescribed any prenatal vitamins. I got One-A-Day prenatal supplements OTC.
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? Before I got pregnant I never liked soda. I hated the way it fet in my mouth and all the bubbles...not to mention the layer of sugar I could FEEL on my teeth (diet or not...). Now, I can't get enough soda. I love it so much. I'm trying to limit my intake of it because I know how horrible it is. Since I found out I was pregnant I have stopped taking all unneccesary medications. No tylenol, no benadryl, nothing. I'm scared to death to take any of it.
How soon were you able to see a doctor? We saw a nurse around 7 weeks just to exchange info or something but there wasn't even any blood work involved and then I had the first visit at like 9 weeks but it turned out I was only around 7 weeks when I got the ultrasound dating.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? I was OK at first as long as I kept food in my stomach or chewed gum but towards the end of the first trimester I started to feel nauseous 24/7, I never puked but I felt the constant need to for a couple weeks
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? When I first found out I took probably 4 or 5 over 2 weeks or so, I liked to watch the pregnancy line get darker and darker.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? Yes. Coworkers had dreams I was pregnant and I was really tired the first trimester and working crazy hours and just wanted to lie down for a minute during the day so it was difficult to not explain why I looked so tired. We ended up telling people around us after we first heard the heartbeat.
Did you have cramps? I did very early on before I knew I was pregnant and I thought I was just gettingi my period. They didn't last that long for me though and were only early on.
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? A nurse gave me a sample of some that I could get as a prescription but I just went off their ingredients and got a store brand that had all the good stuff in it.
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? We got a list at the doctors office of OK pain medication. I haven't had the need to take any while I've been pregnant but if I got a fever or bad headache or something I would take something. I tried to avoid caffeine during the first trimester (except for hot chocolate). I don't drink much soda anyways so that wasn't that big deal but I'd cut back if I did. I got cravings for dry gingerale when I was naseous and it helped and made me happy. I did buy diet gingerale by accident once and diet drinks gross me out so I ended up giving it to someone else.
How soon were you able to see a doctor? I found out at about 4 weeks, and I had to wait until I was 8 weeks to see my doctor.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? I was neauseas 24/7-it was horrible. I would have rather thrown up and gotten some relief. I felt like I had a horrible red wine hangover for 3 months.
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? Yes-until I really started having symptoms like neausea,exhaustion,and the horribly intense hunger. Then I was like, yep I'm pregnant.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? Haha! I told everyone and their grandmother the second I found out.
Did you have cramps? I didn't get cramps until the third trimester. Now they won't go away.
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? Prenatals made me throw up, so I take Flintstones.
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? I think tylenol is okay but always check with your doctor. I've been freaked out about medication so I haven't taken any. I've gotten three colds and they've lasted about ten days each. I've had soda, coffe, and a little wine since being pregnant and all is well.
How soon were you able to see a doctor? We went at 5 weeks 6 days. My doctor is also a bit unconventional and does ultrasounds every 30 days or more
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? I didnt have any, sorry
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? At first, before my first OB appointment. I probably took 6 during those 3 weeks, just to be sure since I had zero symptoms.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? At first, VERY. Then that wanes off and it gets easier
Did you have cramps? Yes, at first.
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? I was taking GNC Prenatals before we TTC, so I continued with those. My Dr prescribed me some (CitraNatal Harmony) but they made me VERY sick, so he told me to continue with the GNC ones.
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? Advil can decrease the amount of amniotic fluid, and Aspirin is a blood thinner. Both are NOT ok. Ive taken Tylenol 3 or 4 times, and Tylenol PM once, and my doctor told me it was fine since it wasnt consistent and it was just two pills for unbearable headaches. Soda (and any caffeine) I didnt touch for the first 12 weeks. Ill have an occasional Pepsi now and then, but I stay away from diet stuff. I mostly go with caff-free Root beer or genger ale though
Hope to help! And CONGRATS!
How soon were you able to see a doctor?
8 weeks. (About 4 weeks after I found out)
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go?
Constant. From about week 7 till week 14 or so, it was like having the flu and a hangover all at once.
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests?
Nope.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet?
I told a couple of supervisors/colleagues at work at 6 weeks because I felt so awful and I wanted them to understand what was up with me. I told my mom around 9 weeks- it was hard keeping that from her for ~5 weeks. After about 14 weeks, we started to slowly tell people as it came up or seemed relevant, but no big announcements. For my first pregnancy, it felt really hard to not tell people- with this one, it really hasn't been. It really felt more like something I wanted to keep private.
Did you have cramps?
Not with this pregnancy, but with my first they were AWFUL- way worse than normal period cramps.
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use?
My provider prescribed some Citra Natal B-calm ones that are supposed to not be as rough on your stomach- I've taken those, as well as Rainbow Light ones, and I have Spectrum brand DHA caplets but I hardly ever take them since they give me fish burps. I also took nothing but Flintstones gummies for a while when pills made me gag.
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda?
I've taken plenty of meds during pregnancy (and my OB is fully aware). I've been on Zofran and Phenergan for nausea, and have tried both Fiorocet and narcotics for migraines. My OB even let me take the occasional ibuprofen during second trimester since that's what is most effective for my headaches. I also take Tylenol as needed and have a very close relationship to my bottle of Tums. Re: soda, there was a while when regular Coke seemed to help my stomach, so I drank two mini-cans a day or so. Now I mainly drink juice or something Gatorade-ish. I also still drink coffee/espresso if they sound good to me- I try to keep my caffeine intake to 150 mg/day or less (although I don't worry if I go over that occasionally).
How soon were you able to see a doctor?
They wouldn't see me prior to 11 weeks.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go?
I barely had any. But I got nauseous depending on how much I ate for breakfast and what time I took my prenatal. I also had to make sure I took my prenatal on a full stomach. Also, my gag reflex was ridiculous! I would almost throw up every day just brushing my teeth.
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests?
I took two -- one at night, then the next morning.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet?
Yes, we told my parents and my FI's parents, and a few close friends. We tried to keep it a secret until our first appointment, but it seemed like everyone we talked to, there seemed to be an "in" in the conversation to announce it!
Did you have cramps?
They felt like period cramps, or pre-period cramps to me and you'll continue to have them throughout your pregnancy. They're just the round-ligament pains because your uterus is growing. If you're lucky like me, you'll also get a burning sensation on your belly muscles because they're stretching/tearing! OUCH! That hurts worse than the cramping to me!
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use?
I use Women's One-A-Day prenatal vitamins, and I just bought them at Walgreens
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda?
Avoid taking anything if you can. But yes, acetametaphin (tylenol) is okay and in the last few weeks I've resorted to taking Tylenol PM to ease my nighttime crampiness and help me sleep (I had major insomnia). Caffeine is okay in moderation -- I have a cup of coffee or a caffeinated soda about 2-3 times a week (used to drink one or hte other daily) and I treat it like it's a big treat!! :)
How soon were you able to see a doctor?
My doctor likes to wait until you're at 8 weeks. I'll be 9 weeks at my first appointment.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go?
So far, I haven't really had any problems with it, but I'm only 5 1/2 weeks.
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests?
Not really, but I'm sure that if my pregnancy symptoms went away, I'd be itching to take another test.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep quiet?
Yes! I'm terrible at keeping my own secrets. We're trying to wait until the second trimester before we share the news, but it's so hard for me (which is one of the reasons I love this board!).
Did you have cramps?
I've had a little bit of very light cramping.
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use?
I usually take prescription prenatals - Gesticare DHA. I'm a bit of a procrastinator on getting them refilled, and sometimes my pharmacy doesn't have them in stock. For the couple of days I'm waiting for them to come in I take Rainbow Light Prenatal One and Spectrum Prenatal DHA (non-fish based). I haven't had any problems with any of these.
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda?
I'm generally trying to avoid both. I'll take tylenol if I end up needing a pain killer. I usually only drink diet soda, so I've given up soda completely. While the artificial sweeteners and other chemicals in diet soda don't faze me at all when my only concern is my health, I feel like it's better to avoid them for the baby.
How soon were you able to see a doctor? 8 weeks. And like others it was just for bloodwork usually but since I've been seeing my OBGYN forever she did an ultrasound also. She rocks.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? Never had any. Pretty sure at this point I won't. I have an iron tummy.
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? Yes, but I didn't take them.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? Yes and no. There are a lot of people that ask questions and talk out of their ass like they know we're keeping a secret. I want to punch them. It's harder to find out someone is asking questions and you have to tell them just so they'll shut up.
Did you have cramps? Yep. Uterine cramps. They've subsided though.
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? I am taking gummy prenatals and the taste sucks. The doctor just wanted to make sure I was taking something. They will do an iron level test so she may ask I take something that has certain levels in it at some point.
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? Ibproferine is a no no. Tylenol is fine. Soda and coffee is fine in moderation, just stay away from diet soda and decaffinated coffee.
Thanks ladies!
How soon were you able to see a doctor? I walked into my office the Monday after I found out I was pregnant (on a Saturday) so I could get their special pee test there, and then go in for bloodwork. I'm really grateful they fit me in, because I was only about 3w4d along, and I wanted the reassurance, as well as to know what I needed to avoid now. My next appt. was 8 weeks, which was a total joke (maybe 1 min long), and I was sent for more bloodwork and an ultrasound (most fun EVER!). Then I had my 12 week on Monday, and got to hear the heartbeat and ask a few more questions. From now on it's all monthly appointments.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? I didn't really have any vomiting, or traditional m/s. I get nauseated if I get too hungry, and then when I eat on a too-empty stomach. I've had some food aversion, and cravings though. Super sniffer, sore breasts, the rest of it too. The thing that really hit me hard was fatigue. I sleep anywhere from 12-16 hours a day, and I know that seems like a lot, but I am so. tired. So I do what my body tells me, and that is SLEEP!
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? I took 5 before I went to the doctor the first time, and I take one every week as I progress. I know it sounds crazy, but I had a bunch left over from TTC, and it eases my mind, especially after doing somthing stupid, like eating cold cuts 3 days in a row before remembering they're a no-no. I'll run out at 13 weeks, which is perfect since that's when the miscarriage risks drop and I'm out of the crazy, scary first trimester.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? We told everybody, it was hard to keep secret. My husband just went nuts before I could even stop him, so it was a lost cause from the beginning. I posted it on facebook at 8 weeks when I had my ultrasound photo, because most already knew, and I didn't want anyone having to find out through other people due to a wall comment or something.
Did you have cramps? Yes! All the time. Period ones, random sharp ones, ones that could be just irritation from all the gas and bloating. My doc says it's normal, and so long as there's no bleeding with it, you'll be fine. I'm at 12 weeks, and I cramp pretty much every day.
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? I started with the doctor samples, but they made me sick. So I switched to generic Kroger ones, and they made me sick too. Now I'm on the chewables, and I LOVE them! They even have DHA like the fancy prescription stuff, and with my Kroger card it was only $5 for a month's supply (they're normally $11, which is still really reasonable). I hated the dr's prescription ones with a passion. I'm so glad I switched!
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? My doc gave me the go-ahead on tylenol, and said to take it when the headaches hit (maybe twice a week). I still drink Cokes, the "good range" varies between 150-300 mg per day, and considerng a soda has 50 mg, I figure I'm in the clear with one or two a day. I'm not guzzling coffee by any means, and I keep it down. But I'm a long-time caffeine addict, and quitting cold turkey gave me the worst headaches and nausea on top of the already crappy m/s symptoms, so I caved. Getting down to 1/day was a big deal for me anyway, and I'd love to try and get even lower than that since sodas are so unhealthy for you. But for now, I'm not too worried about it. I just want to get through pregnancy with my mind intact!!
Congratulations!
How soon were you able to see a doctor? 5 weeks, though this seems to be unusual. This visit consisted of a brief physical exam and some bloodwork. I transferred OB's and my new practice doesn't see patients until 8 weeks for a "pregnancy confirmation" ultrasound. They do the physical exam, full lab work up, & 1st trimester screening at 12 weeks. Other than confirm you're pregnant with a blood test, there's really not a whole lot your dr. can do early on that requires a visit. Too early for an ultrasound, you can find a lot of information on your own, and you can call in for a prescription for prenatal vitamins. I know 9 weeks seems like a forever wait, but just keep in mind you should be able to call your doctor's nurse with any questions you have in the meantime.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? Came & went. Not just mornings either :)
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? I think I took four in the week I had to wait to see the doctor. I made the mistake of going online to start my pregnancy research which accomplished nothing but make me paranoid. My doctor says I really only needed to take the one, but that many women take several "to be sure".
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep quiet? Friends, yes - especially if you have friends who are quick to notice when you're not drinking. Co-workers, felt more like a fun secret you knew that others didn't.
Did you have cramps? No, but I never got cramps before either.
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? Prescription - Prenexa
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? I haven't taken any medicine - your doctor will be able to give you guidelines appropriate for you. I was a soda junkie before I got pregnant and now will have a ginger ale MAYBE once a month as a break from water. As far as caffeine, I stear clear...I'm skeptical about anything they tell you can be harmful at certain levels. I think I'm in the minority here, but that's what I'm comfortable with. Until you get to meet with your doctor or find a pregnancy book you like, here are some online resources I've found helpful: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/pregnancy-nutrition/PR00109 & http://www.babycenter.com/is-it-safe
How soon were you able to see a doctor? My first appointment was at 7 weeks 1 day.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? Mine was pretty constant from six weeks to ten weeks.
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? Haha, yes. I took them once a day for almost the first week after I found out. It was nice to see that faint faint line slowly get darker and darker.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? Yes. I told a couple of best friends right away, family at 7 weeks, and work/everyone else at 13 weeks.
Did you have cramps? I had terrible cramps, especially at night and was really frustrated that it's such a common symptom but nobody talks about it.
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? I get the kind with an added DHA supplement over the counter, my doctor said those were fine or that I could try a prescription version if I wanted... he based it more on price/nausea than anything else.
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? I've just avoided all medications, but I don't really take much of that to begin with. I'm also not a soda drinker, but I have no problem continuing with small amounts of caffeine... I drink a chai tea latte probably every other day.
How soon were you able to see a doctor? I don't get to go in until about 8-9 weeks. I called in late Jan and have to wait until March 4th. It's a hard wait! :-)
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? I'm mid way thru week 6 and having been sick yet, except my guts have been VERY sick. Sorry for TMI, but I have had some pretty bad diarrhea
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? yes :-) I have 2 extras after I took 4 the first 2 days. I took one maybe 5 days later. I have one left and will probably use it :-)
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? OMG! So hard! I did tell my in-laws because I am not talking to my own folks right now. And I told a best friend but that's it. It's really hard
Did you have cramps? Yep. Cramps were my first symptom. Started right at 4 weeks. Sometimes its cramps and sometimes I get a sharp pain
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? I just bought the "Nature Made" brand and started taking them about 2+ months before I got pregnant. I like them because I always heard that prenatal can be HUGE and these are not too big
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? I have heard that only Tylenol is ok. Advil is a big no-no for some reason. As for Soda...it's about the caffeine. You can have up to 200mg a day if you want. I think that's about 2 cups of coffee...maybe 2 or 3 sodas. I am a coffee drinker so I didn't cut it out 100%. I still had a little coffee but my tummy didn't tolerate it well so I have not been drinking it really. Also, I heard that we need to remember that caffeine is also in chocolate...so think about that if you are drinking soda AND lots of chocolate :-)
How soon were you able to see a doctor? I was able to get in at about 8 weeks. I was going on vacation the following week and the doctor wanted to see me before just to make sure everything was okay.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? I had it every single day for about 16 weeks. Some days were worse than others, though.
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? Yeah I did, but resisted the urge, lol.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? It was hard at work especially since my co-worker is also pregnant and month ahead of me. She told them early on, but I wanted to wait, so it was hard to be tough the days I felt horribly sick. We told our immedicate family early on because we couldn't keep it a secret from them. :)
Did you have cramps? Yes, they weren't super painful, but they also felt a bit different than the usual kind.
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? My doctor just gave me a list of what she said I needed out of a prenatal e.g. X amount of Vitamin A, so I just went looking for one that I like and also had what I needed. I ended up getting VitaFusion Gummy Vitamins and I love them.
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? I actually don't drink soda, so I've continued that throughout my pregnancy. As far as any medications I've tried to avoid them as best as I could. I have had to take Tylenol a few times because I didn't want to suffer any longer and a couple of times had such bad heartburn I had to also take something Dr. approved. Also, from weeks 7-16 I was taking Zofran (Dr. prescribed) several times a day to help with my nausea.
How soon were you able to see a doctor? My first appointment was at 8 weeks with a midwife, and 10 weeks with the OB doctor.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? I think I was one of the lucky ones-- no morning sickness and no nausea. I did have complete loss of appetite (which, if you knew me, is really odd =) )
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? I took about 5 at 4 weeks to "make sure" but after that I didn't take any.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? Yes, I'm terrible at secrets, yet we still managed to keep it a secret from everyone for a whole month! I was going a little crazy thinking that I might have made up the pregnancy, and we didn't even tell our parents until 8 weeks.
Did you have cramps? Sometimes? I sometimes had really light ones at night from my uterus stretching
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? I'm taking the Vitafusion Prenatal Gummies + Vitafusion Calcium Gummies. I'm such a baby when it comes to pills! They don't have iron, but my doctor said my iron levels in my blood tests were good.
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? I don't drink much soda, but I've had some 4oz glasses as a "treat" while pregnant. Even so, I usually pick ginger ale or sprite or something without caffeine. The only time I drink caffeinated soda was when I had really bad headaches or migraines. I had migraines pre-pregnancy, so the doctor told me if I got one while pregnant to not take my migraine meds and instead just take Tylenol with a small amount of caffeine. I usually try to power through headaches, but I've taken some Tylenol + soda a couple times.
hello im 9 weeks, and i had my first dr visit at 8 weeks. (about a week ago)
How soon were you able to see a doctor? I had my first dr. visit at 8 weeks, i had an ultrasound and everything
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? not really, just headache, feeling so tired, low blood presure
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? yes
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? i had told 3 friends, mom, in-laws and my brother. thats it. im geting married on march 5th and i will be 13 weeks
Did you have cramps? Yep. lots of them, everyday, mostly in the evening
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? i got organic prenatals, but my docotor prescribed me some at my first visit,
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? i dont take anithing for pain! wich is so hard, becouse i have lots of headache,back pain, cramps,legs pain!
How soon were you able to see a doctor? I saw mine for a confirmation at 6 weeks and for ultrasound in a few wks at 12wks.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? It was constant at first, with nausea, but not it's gone, but I do throw up more.
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? Nope
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? Nope, but I told all at about 8wks, well family.
Did you have cramps? At first, not so much now
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use?
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? I haven't taken pain meds, but I do drink Sprite.
@Miss Sapphire: Why would you say to stay away from decaf coffee (and I assume tea as well)?
"Decaffeinated coffee is also regarded as a potential health risk to pregnant women when chemical solvents are used to extract the caffeine instead of other less invasive processes. The impact of these chemicals is debated, however, as the solvents in question evaporate at 80–90 °C, and coffee beans are decaffeinated before roasting, which occurs at approximately 200 °C. As such, these chemicals, namely trichloroethane and methylene chloride, are present in trace amounts at most, and may not pose a significant threat to embryos and fetuses."
Why not just drink normal coffee in lesser amounts than drink something that has weird ingredients AND isn't caffeine free?
Congratulations on your pregnancy! Hope my answers help.
How soon were you able to see a doctor?
I think these days they make you wait longer just in case something happens and the pregnancy doesn't make it. I had a hunch I was pregnant for a few weeks but all my tests said NEGATIVE ( i took like 6!) but I still felt bad so I went to the doctor and their test said that I was actually pregnant, 8 weeks in fact. I had my first ultrasound 4 days later. If I were any earlier into it they probably wouldnt have seen my so soon.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go?
I felt sick to my stomach ALL DAY for a couple of months, but believe it or not I only threw up once. LOL sometimes I wished I would just throw up to get rid of that icky feeling in my stomach.. but it eventually went away and the rest of my pregnancy was fine.
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? I did until the doctor confirmed it for me.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? Mine was not planned and I was 19 years old. I was living with my boyfriend on our own, but our life wasn't that stable and I was sure my parents would want to kill me. But I told my mom first, it was fine, and people just somehow started finding out. big mouths! lol
Did you have cramps?
I used to get some wicked stomach aches, but it was probably because I ate all kinds of weirdness, lol.. I got aches and pains, of course though, I had a PERSON growing inside me!
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use?
I found some at walmart.. women's choice or something like that.. pink label.. i dont really remember but they worked great
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? I gave up caffeine just because I thought it would be a good idea.. but I let myself have it sometimes and when I did I would notice that my daughter would go CRAZY in my belly! Its a matter of preference, i'd just take it easy. As far as pain medication i don't think the occasional tylenol or advil is a big deal.
How soon were you able to see a doctor? We found out at 4 weeks and were in to see a doctor at 6 weeks. Guess we were lucky!
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? I pretty much felt hungover for about six weeks. Not sure if that makes you feel any better or not. :) I actually only puked once, but felt like I was "in range" more than that.
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? I literally only took ONE test. I guess I just "knew". :) And actually, I've heard that you shouldn't keep taking them after you get a positive because you are a lot more likely to get a false negative than a false positive - and you're just going to freak yourself out!
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? We didn't even make it through one day without telling people. :)
Did you have cramps? I definitely had cramps. Weirded me out, but I guess it's normal.
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? I took generic Publix brand ones (and now generic Target brand ones). My OB gave me some free samples of some fancy ones but they made me really sick. She said it really doesn't matter - the cheap generic ones are just fine!
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? I'll take Tylenol sparingingly but I haven't drank any soda. Well, nothing caffeinated.
How soon were you able to see a doctor? I had my first appointment at 8 weeks and to my surprise they did an ultrasound and some bloodwork! At 13 weeks we did the doppler to detect the heartbeat. I had another ultrasound at 13 weeks during my screening test for Down's Syndrome- they measured the back of the neck I think. My next appointment is this Friday and I'll be 18 weeks exactly.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go?I was really lucky- no morning sickness. My nose is sensitive and my appetite decreased. The smell of coffee and garlic make me just crazy (both things I probably consumed daily before pregnancy).
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? Nope- I just took one. It is probably because I am cheap- they are expensive and I hate the idea of wasting one when I already know I'm pregnant.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? We found out about a month after the wedding we were pregnant. It all happened way too quickly so it was easy to keep quiet at first. We waited until week 14 to tell everyone- which was Christmas.
Did you have cramps? Yes- on the sides of my abdomen if I bend or move in the wrong way. Those don't go away, at least so I am told.
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? We bought our own at the drugstore, but I wish I had waited until the doctor's appointment. He wrote a script and sent me to a store that will actually give them to you for free with my insurance coverage. He also recommended a magnesium supplement for me- I get migraines and it helps prevent them, and apparently it is also great for bowel movements. Constipation can be an issue during pregnancy (sorry of that was TMI!).
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? My doctor told me tylenol is okay, basically everything else is bad- especially ibprofen. As far as soda goes- I am addicted to Diet Coke. I have seriously cut back, but I usually have 1 per day. All things in moderation...
How soon were you able to see a doctor? I I don't think I went in until 8 weeks and they didn't do anything since baby is too small to see on an ultrasound. We basically talked about all the upcoming visits for the rest of the pregnancy, they did bloodwork and urinalysis.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? I was sick all the time (nausea and vomiting) for the first 12 weeks. And then one day I woke up and it was all better.
to constantly take pregnancy tests? Nope, but I understand the anxiety. Iwas charting my BBT in order to conceive, so for the first two months or so I did continue to chart to make sure my temp was still high and to look for dips which could indicate a miscarriage.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet? It was so hard to keep it a secret, we only told my parents during the first trimester.
Did you have cramps? No, but I did get round ligament stretching which was a little painful
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use? I wasn't recommended any particular brand, but I do look for ones that contain DHA and are gentle on the stomach. I currently use a brand from my local natural health food store.
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? Tylenol (acetominophen) is OK, but advil (ibuprofen) is not. As for soda, there's nothing wrong with drinking soda, but it's probably best to avoid giving baby massive doses of sugar and caffeine or if it's diet soda, massive doses of aspartame.
Thanks ladies!
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Along with spraguebride , I too am newly pregnant and have lots of questions since I don't really feel like I can ask anyone else I know since we are keeping this quiet. Plus, I wanted a range of answers. So, here are my questions (really more first trimester questions):
How soon were you able to see a doctor? I called the obgyn my family practice doctor recommended and they won't see me until 9 weeks, and that's just for lab work/medical history. My physical exam won't be until 11 weeks, or 4 weeks from today.
Was morning sickness (if you had it) pretty constant, or did it come and go? I felt really nauseated almost constantly for 3 days last week, but I haven't really felt much yesterday or the day before. Am I out of the woods then, or will it go away and come back?
Do you feel the need to constantly take pregnancy tests? This might sound crazy, but I kind of want to take one everyday. I just feel like I need that constant reassurance that I am still pregnant.
If you decided not to tell people right away, was it hard to keep it quiet?
Did you have cramps? I get back cramps when I have my period, and I've probably had similar cramps at least once every day for the last 2 weeks. They're not super painful, but they are uncomfortable.
Were your prenatal vitamins prescribed (or recommended) by your doctor, or did you pick them out on your own? And what do you use?
And finally, what is your take on pain medications and soda? From what I understand, tylenol is okay, aspirin/advil is not, although I've avoided all because I'm not sure, and pop is okay in moderation, but I've been afraid to drink that too.
Thanks ladies!