- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2006
For us, we defintely had more sex right after we moved in to our new place because of….ahem….christening various locations seemed absolutely necessary 🙂 But now we’ve settled into a routine because we’re together evrey night we sometimes go several nights without having sex…when we didn’t live together, we spent maybe 2-3 nights of the week together and would usually have sex every night we slept over. Overall I’d say that number hasn’t changed.
I had to say other b/c at a point of our dating relationship “engagement” we took a vow of purity and we didn’t live together before getting married so although it’s been more since moving in together it’s really only b/c the Big Day has come and gone… =)
Definitely after. I guess it’s more convenient now? lol
Definitely after. We went from 2 times a week or so to 7.
That’s a bit of tricky one to answer! We were long distance for a significant portion of our relationship, only able to see each other every 3 months or so. When we were together, it was definitely a daily affair, sometimes multiple times per day. Now that we’re finally in the same country, living together at last, we’re more like 3 – 4 days per week.
Before we lived together we saw each other every other day. We had sex every time we hung out. Since we’ve lived together (almost 2 years now) it’s about once every two weeks.
I hated typing every single word of that last sentence 🙁
Before we lived together he came down every Thursday to Monday before school… We had sex at least once while he was here… now were on again off again… we can be in the mood 3 days in a row or not for 3 weeks. Neither of us care much but it’s definitely decreased since living together.
While doing our premarital couseling we heard about an “un-written” rule for this particular couple to have SOME kind of sexual intimacy atleast every 4 days. Even is one isn’t totally in the mood (generally her) or lifes just REALLY busy (they’re both highly involved in Ministry).. every 4 days there’s gonna be some action. lol
definitely after we moved in together…
Gah some of you are freaking me out but some not! Right now it’s about once/week and I’d really prefer for it not to go down. I think we *might* be ok though, we have an unspoken “rule” that we have sex at least once/week.
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