- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
Bees it happened. I honestly didn’t think it would because I have been pretty at ease with all the planning and such. But from what I read this isn’t your typical nightmare. Sure things go wrong in them (there have been more than 1) but each time my FI is there and makes everything ok. (guess my dreams are telling me he is the right one!) What causes me to wake up overwhelmed or upset is that each time I am center of attention and everyone is pointing or looking or whatever at me! I know that everyone will be looking at me on the big day and I didn’t think this would be a big deal, I am a pretty outgoing person. But Bees I need your help! How do I overcome this anxiety of being the center of attention? did any of you go through this and find ways to make it through the wedding? I am terrified that I will pass out in the Church or run out from fear. When I talked to Fi about it he tried to be supportive but wasn’t sure how to help. So Bees how am I going to make it down the aisle? I am starting to wish we had eloped but now that I have done all the planning I want to have this wedding, I am just not sure I can survive the attention!